Can't cum during oral sex...delayed ejaculation

[abdheuuuchjc]

I've been with my girl for about a month now and whenever we have done stuff (hand and oral) I haven't been able to cum and we've tried for long periods of time but I am able to cum perfectly fine on my own. I did some research and it's a disorder called delayed ejaculation and it could be caused by a number of things that apply to me such as depression, anxiety, excessive masturbation usage of anti depressants (which I no longer use). However I can't find any treatment options, do you guys have any ideas?

[Vermilion]

Try stopping jo for a bit of you plan to have sex. As for the other's how long have you been of antidepressants ?

[abdheuuuchjc]

I was on the anti depressants for about 2 years and I quit about a year ago

[The37thElement]

I think Tom has the right idea. As hard as it seems, avoid getting off until you're with her.

[Vermilion]

I was on the anti depressants for about 2 years and I quit about a year ago

Ok I don't think it's that then, do you feel anxious when having sex

[abdheuuuchjc]

Ok I don't think it's that then, do you feel anxious when having sex

Not really...I don't know

[Vermilion]

Not really...I don't know

I'm thinking it's a mental thing. I would say see your Dr if Your not to embarrassed

[joel-d]

It could also be that she just doesn't know what feels good to you. (She's a girl, so she hasn't been practicing with a dick since she was 12 or whatever, lol.) Any stroking or sucking on your boner would feel good, but it might not be good enough to make you cum. Maybe you could take turns, like you stroke yourself for a while, the she does, or you both do it at the same time. You'll be able to get yourself closer and she'll learn what stroking feels good to you.

Do you totally explode when you get home and cum on your own after being all worked up with her? If so, then there's probably no medical problem. She just needs to learn the right touch for you!

[chou-k]

see your Dr bro !

[CuriousConner]

You should get medical attention probably.

[nwtnguy]

She probably hasn't had much practice. Just let her know what feels the best and it will happen

[Bluebyrd]

I personally think your research is wrong because I've never quite understood how one could cum during oral sex as a mouth isn't exactly tight is it?