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sporegia1999
June 24th, 2015, 07:23 AM
Hi I'm 15 years old and was wondering why I can't shoot cum anymore, I recently wanked with a friend and when he came he squirted quite far a foot or 2 and I used to do that easy but when I came it just dribbled out which looked terrible, he said it might be because I have a quite big penis 8" and he has a 6" but I was wondering if anyone has a better answer and can help me shoot again cause it feels much better in my opinion

Jaffe
June 24th, 2015, 08:44 AM
First.... how long since you last had an orgasm? I shoot if it's been a while, but by my bedtime j/o session, I usually just dribble.

Second... is there any pain when you j/o or when you cum, or when you pee? Or trouble getting hard, anything like that? Any other changes in your balls or penis? It could be a blockage. If that's it, you'll need to see a doctor for it.

Third ... does it matter a lot to you? I've never really worried much about how far I shoot, or if I don't shoot at all, or how much cum, or even if its almost dry, or all those things.... What matters to me is how intense it is, how it feels, how long the contractions last and how hard they are. The rest of it is just for show, or people think its masculine for some reason. And I don't care about any of those reasons.

patsfan925
June 24th, 2015, 08:45 AM
Well theres nothing you can do to make yourself shoot. It all depends on level of arousal and how long its been since your last cum. Did you jack off recently before wanking with your friend?

Hermes
June 24th, 2015, 09:48 AM
Regarding penis size I have heard the suggestion before that the bigger the diameter of your urethra, the tube that runs through your penis, the less force your ejaculation will have (for the same muscular force behind it). That could be a consequence of having a bigger penis. It's a bit like how water from a hose goes further if you narrow the end with your finger, though I am not suggesting you do this to your penis.

For me, the big that makes a difference is being highly aroused for as long as you can manage before finally cumming, for example by edging/stop & go. That tends to result in a more intense orgasm, more, but thinner, cum and more distance.

Thinking on that did he cum first so you felt rushed to catch up? Were you at his place and he had started before you got there? Either of those could account for the difference.

The other thing that people report success with is waiting longer between ejaculations. For me that increases the amount of cum but seems to make it really thick and it doesn't shoot so well but give it a try.

It also helps not to stress about it as that tends to work against being aroused. We all know, obviously, that when it comes to fathering a child ejaculation is key to that but it really doesn't matter whether your sperm are contained in a little liquid or a lot and the cervix is not very far away from the tip of your penis so shooting far doesn't really increase the chances.

Until you get to that point pleasure is the main thing. I sometimes shoot and I sometimes don't and, while my most intense orgasms usually come after edging and are thus more likely to be accompanied by shooting, I have had really intense orgasms when I have been super horny and masturbating for the fourth time in a day and almost dry. Sure, it's nice to see a big fountain of cum and I enjoy it when it happens but if it doesn't I still enjoy the orgasm very much.

sporegia1999
June 24th, 2015, 10:00 AM
I jacked off the day before and yes he did cum about 5 mins before me so I guess I was rushing, I have no pain peeing or ejaculating either, I don't really care if I squirt or not but most girls or guys I've been with say it's hotter

badblood
June 24th, 2015, 10:48 AM
Depend how horny you was and if you wank recently

Zachary G
June 24th, 2015, 10:58 AM
i find if i jo alot in a day then i dont tend to shoot as much as i dribble, but if i am really horny than it will shoot a lot. dont stress it, there isnt much you can do about it really, you could always hold off a few days and then see if it will shoot again, but there is no one thing you can do to make it happen -- it either will or it wont.

Blank999
June 24th, 2015, 03:11 PM
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Canadian Dream
June 24th, 2015, 06:01 PM
If you jacked off recently before that might influence how much you cum and if you squirt. Maybe wait for a bit, then try masturbating again and see if it made any difference.

CuriousConner
June 24th, 2015, 06:18 PM
Your friend probably didn't jack off for longer than 24 hours and i'm assuming you must've

Bluebyrd
June 28th, 2015, 06:55 PM
I don't shoot so I can't provide an answer from persoanl experience but I suppose it's because you'd wanked recently

Zerg
August 26th, 2015, 03:11 PM
I would not masturbate for a few days, and see after that