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myskias
April 14th, 2008, 12:50 AM
what do i do! im starting to like my best friends girlfriend and i dont want to ruin their relationship but this is our last year together at the same middle school (me and the girl) well all of us are going to different schools next year. i dont know waht to do! i dont want to hurt my friend or her and im confused

Gumleaf
April 14th, 2008, 01:02 AM
well i think you have kind of answered your own question a bit here. there is not much you can do without causing huge problems with your friendships. but i would like to suggest something about those feelings for you to think about. is it possible that you are only feeling this way because its your last year together and its starting to hit home that you won't be spending time together as friends soon, and that these feelings are not romantic feelings so much but feelings of upcoming loss? just a thought.

sportyman1992
April 14th, 2008, 01:07 AM
Just to say one thing... u use to be in the same situation as you... but i though to myself.. if i make a move on her and she accept it.. i could and prob will loose my best mate...

if i make a move will she slap me silly and tell my best mate..

wellz i want to ask u a question now... do you really like her that much that u will loose your bestfriend for?

i chose to say nothing.. and my best friends still doesn't know i use to like her... evrything turned out great... u should look for another girl matey

myskias
April 14th, 2008, 07:52 PM
alright i think boomer's thoughts are right, same as you sporty. il keep quiet until it passes. thanks guys

Break the Cage
April 15th, 2008, 07:54 AM
bros before hoes.

whowants2know
April 15th, 2008, 05:24 PM
bros before hoes.

lol nice i agree

Underground_Network
April 15th, 2008, 05:31 PM
Its technically "hos" not "hoes". Hoes are what you use on farms [hopefully not in a sexual way]. The slang term is spelled without the e. Just felt like saying that. :wink:

Anyways, I agree with Stephen [Boomerang] and Sporty, your friend should come first. There are other fishies in the sea. Be patient and you'll find a different girl, a girl for you.

myskias
April 15th, 2008, 05:40 PM
yup :P

sabotaged111
April 19th, 2008, 04:56 PM
Best of luck

Close102
April 20th, 2008, 11:59 AM
if she wouldnt let you go out with her friend then she is a really bad friend

Falk 'Ace' Flyer
April 21st, 2008, 12:03 AM
This happened to me once, but I quickly got over it. You're probably just getting jealous, maybe because of hormones or whatever the "in" reason is. My advice is to just start thinking about other girls you like, or just ignore her. Chances are you don't like her as much as you may think, and this feeling could pass in a few days.