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onewingedangel666
June 21st, 2015, 07:33 PM
So I asked this girl i sorta like for her number, and she obliged, so recenty I've been trying to text her.

The problem is, she only ever responds when i ask a question or something to that effect...
Today we texted a little, but it was mostly "WHats up" "How've you been" "Did you..." all questions asked by me. She responded instatly and everything, but as soon as I don't ask another question, (I said "Yeah me neither lol") she stopped responding.

Should I text her again? Or just wait? I feel stupid going throug a stupid list of questions, without her ever initiating anything...

Microcosm
June 21st, 2015, 08:37 PM
I know exactly how you feel. There was a girl who did the exact same thing to me. Long story short: She was an ass hole, and still is. So, I just gave up. Chances are she probably thinks she's too good for you or something stupid like that. Personally, I'd let her go if she doesn't seem interested.

onewingedangel666
June 21st, 2015, 08:47 PM
The thing is, she always texts back, and she absolutely has conversations with me. It just annoys me that when we text she never initiates conversations lol.

EDIT: When OI say conversations, I mean liek I ask her questions and she answers them, like it's not just 1 word answers.

ClaraWho
June 22nd, 2015, 09:05 AM
Maybe the topics you chose are just dull, and both of you are bored, unsure of what to say. Ask her what she is doing, even if she's just watching something ask her about it/see if you watch the same things.

It's all about the art of conversation making. If you say something obviously intriguing, she will question you on it.

For a bad example;

You: "Did you hear what happened in class today?!"
Her: What??

-----> She asks a question and you're off. Obviously make sure what you are telling her is interesting, and not just that you had a substitute teacher!

~ Clara

Pareta3mou
June 23rd, 2015, 10:20 AM
Firstly, NEVER i mean NEVER initiate a talk through texting with words like Hi, Whats up, etc. If you start the talk this way it will lead into a deadlock and it would be exactly like this:
-Hey
-Hi
-How are you?
-I'm fine. You?
-I'm fine too. Anything new?
-No, nothing yet.
Conversation ends right there.
You have to start with another, exciting and not boring way. It's everything in the way you start and continue your talks with her.