I know this is never gonna happen but

[Daily]

I'd really like if I deflowered the first person I had sex with. So it could be a special experience for both of us. Unfortunately its never gonna happen in todays world because the human mind is flawed and driven by emotions.

[Jaffe]

Why is that important to you? I mean, it's definitely possible. But does it really matter? Does the fact that both of you are virgins really what makes it a "special experience"?

[Dortmund]

Plenty of people out there are virgins today. In many senses you're merely taking someones word for it when they say they aren't virgins.

At the same time though it shouldn't be a factor in a relationship with someone. If you truly love someone you should be able to look past that.

The girl I lost my virginity too wasn't also a virgin and I can't say it bothered me, although I know what you mean about wanting it to be special and all.

[Daily]

But why would I want to be with a slut who views me as "just a guy among all the others I've fucked"?

[Dortmund]

Because very few girls are 'sluts'.

Just because a girl has slept with one or two people doesn't make them a slut.
If a girl has been in a relationship with a guy and slept with them and then gets into a relationship with you it's difficult to call that girl a slut.

[Jaffe]

But why would I want to be with a slut who views me as "just a guy among all the others I've fucked"?

That is an entirely different thing than you asked in the first post. Hardly even related.

[Daily]

Because very few girls are 'sluts'.

Just because a girl has slept with one or two people doesn't make them a slut.
If a girl has been in a relationship with a guy and slept with them and then gets into a relationship with you it's difficult to call that girl a slut.
I still find it disgusting.

[Dortmund]

If it's that big a deal you'll just have to wait to find someone who's also a virgin then. It's as simple as that.

[Daily]

If it's that big a deal you'll just have to wait to find someone who's also a virgin then. It's as simple as that.
Well wish me good luck then, 'cause I'm not taking it if its not reciprocal, I don't want a fwb.

[Lost in the Echo]

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[DoodleSnap]

I still find it disgusting.
I don't think that that is a very healthy view to have. Why do you think that someone not losing their virginity to you is disgusting? Maybe they thought that that relationship at the time was going to last forever?
There are plenty of people who are still virgins, but having lost one's virginity doesn't make sex with someone any less special, in my opinion. Just be open minded, and you will find that when you love someone that much, tiny little societal constructs and pressures like that simply don't matter anymore.

[Daily]

I don't think that that is a very healthy view to have.
I already know I have a sick mind.
Why do you think that someone not losing their virginity to you is disgusting?Its not that. Its the fact that they had sex with someone before and then they leave this person just to have sex with someone else. I just don't like the idea of being a tool for casual sex.

[Cronor]

But why would I want to be with a slut who views me as "just a guy among all the others I've fucked"?

Becuase it's more than that if she sticks to you, and you keep sticking it in her.
( See what I did there? Pun intended. )
Sex depends on who you're having it with, every time can be a special time.