Sexually Urges

[CosmeticKiss]

I'm thirteen years old and I have a great figure. and everything but only problem is Ive been having sexually feelings to like have sex .
But I don't want to loss my virginity to some guy whos going to want to do me
and than discard me in like a minute, I want to be with a guy who really loves me.
and I'd give it up but it problem won't happen like that because I want to have sex .
But I dont want to have at the same time I do .
Can you help me my sexually urges are out of place .

[scatman]

well being 13 i wouldent suggest having sex

[japanman]

Masterbation is a good way to deal with sexual urges it can help alot to relilef those urges. And its your choice to have sex but your thirteen still going through puberty you probably dont need sex.


He was being helpful.
-TheSun

[Gumleaf]

13 is way too young to have sex. i nearly fell into that trap of having sex at 13, and its not a good idea. like someone else has said, masturbation is a way of beating those urges. another way that might help is that you find alternate interests that fills in time so you don't have time to have those urges. i don't know how successful that would be but it might help.

[Zephyr]

Hun, I recomend that you save your v-card for a much later date. I lost it at 15, thinking that I was ready and that my bf of the time was 'the one', but I was completely in the wrong. When you're older and look back at some of the things that you've done, you will realize how childish it was. Just wait it out until later... you'll be happier in the long run = ) In the mean time, try masterbation to ease your sexual urges.

[Kimiko]

It seems like over active hromones,try masturbation.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

I think you're having these urges because your body is reaching sexual maturity, not because you're emotionally ready. Everyone has thoughts about sex, even when we know we're not going to go out and find someone to do it with, and these thoughts do NOT by any means mean that you have to have sex. Give it some time, you'll find the right guy at some point. But for now, it's best to stick with fantasizing and/or masturbation.

[Techno Monster]

These thoughts are normal, but please do not have sex masterbation is the way to go.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

DO NOT have sex you will destroy your life.

Woah there! I know having sex at this age is definitely NOT a good idea but really harsh comments like making sex "life destroying" aren't that great either. We need to make sure that everybody that is struggling with this knows that sexuality istelf is not wrong, or dangerous, or "dirty". It's okay to have sexual thoughts and desires; everybody does. We just have to make sure that we control ourselves so that we don't act on them, which MAY have pretty bad consequences. It probably WILL have negative repercussions! Just try not to throw down terrible ultimatums or consequences. It can scare people off of their own sexuality and cause problems when they're more mature and actually ready for sex. So in my opinon; not a good idea for now, but don't feel bad at all for how you feel; you're not alone :yes:

[thesphinx]

DO NOT have sex you will destroy your life.

Please try and stay helpful here, Just telling someone not to do something doesn't help.

[dmeek7]

it is your disicion but i suggest not. and just try masturbating

[LightScribe]

Yeah I wouldn't suggest having sex at that age. If you're 13, try masturbating. If you really want to do something with a guy, maybe play around with a boy but don't actually have sex with him.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Yeah we've all suggested masturbation; but have you actually masturbated before? The OP hasn't responded in awhile...

[Glasgow]

Wait a year, then your legal.

[Close102]

try mastubation

[The Pretender]

Your wwwaaayyy too young to be having sex just try masturbating when you get these urges.

[hardcore-smile]

i sugest masturbation :)

[sara1220]

It seems like over active hromones,try masturbation.

I feel like I'm the same way with the over active hormones... masturbating really helps my urges!!!!!!!!!! 13 is way too young for sex.

[sabotaged111]

I suggest masturbating. Youre to young for sex, Like me!:D

[doodledum]

that happened to me too (still happens sometimes and i am 14). try masturbation, it helps

[silentc0re]

Start masturbating it relives the stress.

[Random_oso06]

ya j/o takes those urges away

[Antares]

Well girls can't jack off so that is somewhat out of the question. Does anyone have any last suggestions that are not masturbation?

[DarkWingedAngel]

i had the exact problem i wanted to have sex but my bf was not ready i don't even no if i was ready so i tryed masterbating it realy helps u should try it:)