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jacshamy
June 19th, 2015, 09:34 PM
I'm going to go on a first date tomorrow but I never kissed anyone before. Never kissed anyone open mouth, french kiss. I'm freaking out how do you do it right?

Gwen
June 20th, 2015, 10:47 AM
On a first date it shouldn't be anything intense usually just a peck, where you basically just touch lips. Kissing is something that kind of comes naturally in my opinion. My first kiss was something I practised it just happened, It really is just putting lips on each other and french kiss is with tongue. Just don't mash teeth during a french kiss >_<
Looking at the dates I realised this advice might be too late, hopefully it went well!

rioo
June 20th, 2015, 11:43 AM
You can do "shy kiss" first, . Kiss her lips quick no tongue, then see her eyes. One or twice kiss is enough for first date.

CosmicNoodle
June 20th, 2015, 12:35 PM
No one knows how to kiss before they do it for the first time, just do it and see what happens, it's hard to describe how to do it, you kind of just...DO

Jaffe
June 20th, 2015, 03:07 PM
Is there a RIGHT way? Get into it gradual. Your first kiss isn't always a french kiss. It might not even be an open-mouth kiss.

One of my friends told me once that he practiced on the bathroom mirror. I laughed for an hour (after he left, so he didnt know I laughed). But he said it was good practice, cause he could see what he was doing! Just clean the mirror real good first...

Semi_IronMan
June 21st, 2015, 04:02 AM
I don't think u learn how to kiss. it just comes naturally

Straya
June 21st, 2015, 06:23 AM
I'm going to go on a first date tomorrow but I never kissed anyone before. Never kissed anyone open mouth, french kiss. I'm freaking out how do you do it right?

haha no one knows how to kiss there first time. they only way to learn is to do it and do it again and again and you will get better over time. if they judge you on your ability to kiss then she isnt the right one

jacshamy
June 21st, 2015, 12:50 PM
On a first date it shouldn't be anything intense usually just a peck, where you basically just touch lips. Kissing is something that kind of comes naturally in my opinion. My first kiss was something I practised it just happened, It really is just putting lips on each other and french kiss is with tongue. Just don't mash teeth during a french kiss >_<
Looking at the dates I realised this advice might be too late, hopefully it went well!

You can do "shy kiss" first, . Kiss her lips quick no tongue, then see her eyes. One or twice kiss is enough for first date.

No one knows how to kiss before they do it for the first time, just do it and see what happens, it's hard to describe how to do it, you kind of just...DO

Is there a RIGHT way? Get into it gradual. Your first kiss isn't always a french kiss. It might not even be an open-mouth kiss.

One of my friends told me once that he practiced on the bathroom mirror. I laughed for an hour (after he left, so he didnt know I laughed). But he said it was good practice, cause he could see what he was doing! Just clean the mirror real good first...

I don't think u learn how to kiss. it just comes naturally

haha no one knows how to kiss there first time. they only way to learn is to do it and do it again and again and you will get better over time. if they judge you on your ability to kiss then she isnt the right one

Hey everyone thanks for your advice! Yup it pretty much came naturally. It was a fun night. :D

Woldaren
June 21st, 2015, 04:38 PM
That's great to hear! Kinda new here but It's always nice to hear when something turns out good. After all, you can only get better after the first try too :)

Jaffe
June 21st, 2015, 06:08 PM
Hey everyone thanks for your advice! Yup it pretty much came naturally. It was a fun night. :D

Glad it went good. Was nothing to stress about, was it? And next time, you won't be stressed at all so it will be even better.

Daily
June 21st, 2015, 07:01 PM
Eh I guess some people are meant to have these things and others aren't.

onewingedangel666
June 21st, 2015, 07:40 PM
Eh I guess some people are meant to have these things and others aren't.

Well someones a depressing dave!
Cheer up man, you're not the only one :)

jacshamy
June 27th, 2015, 12:03 PM
So yup my kissing is getting better. :)

The37thElement
June 27th, 2015, 12:22 PM
It's really not something that's necessary to think about, it just happens. Your body does ALL the work and it requires little to no thought process whatsoever.

Jaffe
June 27th, 2015, 12:51 PM
So yup my kissing is getting better. :)

Meaning you got more practice?

jacshamy
June 27th, 2015, 12:54 PM
Meaning you got more practice?

YUS!!!!

Silicate Wielder
June 27th, 2015, 08:06 PM
Kissing is kinda something we all know how to do subconsiously in my opinion, but you only learn to do it properly with time.

for a first time one, a peck is just fine, which is just touching of lips

once things progress far enough to the point that you're french kissing, take it slow the first time, and don't feel discouraged if it's a bit messy the first few times.

SethfromMI
June 27th, 2015, 10:11 PM
the only way to learn is by doing it. good luck :)

jacshamy
July 5th, 2015, 12:34 PM
the only way to learn is by doing it. good luck :)

I'm happy to say I'm getting really good at it! :P

SethfromMI
July 5th, 2015, 12:55 PM
I'm happy to say I'm getting really good at it! :P

haha good

Blazefire
July 5th, 2015, 12:57 PM
Its like licking ice cream . :)

DoodleSnap
July 6th, 2015, 10:52 AM
I'm glad to hear it all went well!
These sorts of things aren't meant to be perfect the first time, the awkward first tries are a cute part of a developing romance.

jacshamy
July 19th, 2015, 05:04 PM
Its like licking ice cream . :)

Ahem yup. :D Use that same technique for other areas. :yes:

I'm glad to hear it all went well!
These sorts of things aren't meant to be perfect the first time, the awkward first tries are a cute part of a developing romance.

I was sooooo nervous first time. But he took over and it was great. His smile beat my nervousness. :)

Let Me Be a Pony
July 19th, 2015, 05:40 PM
Good job on that, broski. c:

Here's a shocker for those who've never kissed: I'm almost 20 and have never kissed, LMAO. That's social anxiety at its finest. xD
And I ain't worried about that. Hell, I wouldn't mind if i'm 69 and still haven't kissed.
Before I die, I must do it though.

DoodleSnap
July 19th, 2015, 05:57 PM
Ahem yup. :D Use that same technique for other areas. :yes:



I was sooooo nervous first time. But he took over and it was great. His smile beat my nervousness. :)
See, it all turns out okay in the end. A boy that's a good kisser always helps :P