ZzeWatermelon
June 18th, 2015, 04:36 PM
Let me try to get this as neat and straight as possible so it's easy to read and understand. I really need advice on this topic.
I am 15 currently, and I had a boyfriend two years ago. We met in a summer camp and I really liked him, and the summer camp was like two weeks long. We didn't know each other too well, and we started dating after a week. For a 13 year old me and him it was serious, it was a beginning to dating (I haven't had another boyfriend since then though, I've had crushes only - and unofficial little stuff happening). He was my first boyfriend, I was his first girlfriend. The dating was two weeks in real life only, and not too serious. A couple of hugs, small pecks, lots of talking.
He's generally a really shy person, and I realize that now - I don't regret dating him at all, it was awesome. I just realized I was incredibly young at the time, and maybe I should've waited a few years and maybe started dating at my current age, I don't really know. It still felt super awesome.
Our problem was distance. We live in two different countries - the camp where we met and dated took place in his country. We decided to be a long distance couple. And now it does sound ridiculous because we were 13 at the time and I understand why it didn't work out.
He was generally a shy guy. He would be all 'closed up', and he would blush a lot around me, and I think he liked me even more than I liked him to be honest. I can't even tell.
Our long distance dating resumed to skyping and messenger.
We never had serious topics, talks, it was platonic, boring. I would text him: Hey! How are you? And he would be like: Hey, nothing's going on. And he would never be too eager to talk normally. He was really immature, he still is.
We knew our relationship was going nowhere. And we mutually decided to end it.
That was the moment when I think I got freaky, I was like: ''I think it's bad, we'll get back together, we have to, you'll see''. And I would say: ''I miss you"" and he would say: "ok"" and it really hurt but I knew I overreacted at times. I was convinced we would be in a relationship again and I would tell him it HAD to be that way.
I was probably freaky. It was my first experience at dating and I know I screwed some things but mistakes are here to improve our future and teach us how to be a better person. So I'm kinda glad I did them.
We stopped talking for five months or so. And today I wrote to him. And I asked how he was, he said: nothing's going on, I said there must be something at school, home etc and he said : nothing's going on - again. So then I said that he's not really communicative and I said I gotta go and he said bye!! So he totally ignored me.
This made me really mad.
I don't understand why he's all negative and … it feels like he's ignoring me.
Does he regret dating me? Does he think I'm freaky? Does he think I'm too clingy or annoying? Or what's wrong? I just want my friend back, I'm so not into dating anymore. We'll be 16 in like seven months. This is such an immature behavior and it seems like he… hates me. He should be over that dating situation.
Do you know what happened? Or what I messed up? I moved on a long time ago but I miss that friend for some reason.
Can you explain the situation? It makes me so mad! Why would he ignore me like that?
I am 15 currently, and I had a boyfriend two years ago. We met in a summer camp and I really liked him, and the summer camp was like two weeks long. We didn't know each other too well, and we started dating after a week. For a 13 year old me and him it was serious, it was a beginning to dating (I haven't had another boyfriend since then though, I've had crushes only - and unofficial little stuff happening). He was my first boyfriend, I was his first girlfriend. The dating was two weeks in real life only, and not too serious. A couple of hugs, small pecks, lots of talking.
He's generally a really shy person, and I realize that now - I don't regret dating him at all, it was awesome. I just realized I was incredibly young at the time, and maybe I should've waited a few years and maybe started dating at my current age, I don't really know. It still felt super awesome.
Our problem was distance. We live in two different countries - the camp where we met and dated took place in his country. We decided to be a long distance couple. And now it does sound ridiculous because we were 13 at the time and I understand why it didn't work out.
He was generally a shy guy. He would be all 'closed up', and he would blush a lot around me, and I think he liked me even more than I liked him to be honest. I can't even tell.
Our long distance dating resumed to skyping and messenger.
We never had serious topics, talks, it was platonic, boring. I would text him: Hey! How are you? And he would be like: Hey, nothing's going on. And he would never be too eager to talk normally. He was really immature, he still is.
We knew our relationship was going nowhere. And we mutually decided to end it.
That was the moment when I think I got freaky, I was like: ''I think it's bad, we'll get back together, we have to, you'll see''. And I would say: ''I miss you"" and he would say: "ok"" and it really hurt but I knew I overreacted at times. I was convinced we would be in a relationship again and I would tell him it HAD to be that way.
I was probably freaky. It was my first experience at dating and I know I screwed some things but mistakes are here to improve our future and teach us how to be a better person. So I'm kinda glad I did them.
We stopped talking for five months or so. And today I wrote to him. And I asked how he was, he said: nothing's going on, I said there must be something at school, home etc and he said : nothing's going on - again. So then I said that he's not really communicative and I said I gotta go and he said bye!! So he totally ignored me.
This made me really mad.
I don't understand why he's all negative and … it feels like he's ignoring me.
Does he regret dating me? Does he think I'm freaky? Does he think I'm too clingy or annoying? Or what's wrong? I just want my friend back, I'm so not into dating anymore. We'll be 16 in like seven months. This is such an immature behavior and it seems like he… hates me. He should be over that dating situation.
Do you know what happened? Or what I messed up? I moved on a long time ago but I miss that friend for some reason.
Can you explain the situation? It makes me so mad! Why would he ignore me like that?