Being alone

[Gerald1700]

As a child I grew up without a sis and brothers but I grew up being distracted by the gifts and presents that my parents always gives me, so am at the last grade of high school in now in South Africa, but I have always had hope that one day I'll find a friend that will close a certain gap, upto now am still solitary, a different unique person alone without friends, I have no one to talk to, I only have this phone, please anyone, help
I always see some of the people being best friend but I try to get that best person but I just dont fit in
Please can anyone avail themselve as a friend am desperate now to make a friend that I can talk to here on the phone for am alone

[northy]

I'm sure people on here will talk to you. You seem to be unhappy on your own. The best way to make friends is to meet people. Maybe join a local youth group, scouting or maybe a sports team. Don't worry about why people think of you, approach stone people who look nice and just chat to them. Good luck! :)

[Gerald1700]

I'm sure people on here will talk to you. You seem to be unhappy on your own. The best way to make friends is to meet people. Maybe join a local youth group, scouting or maybe a sports team. Don't worry about why people think of you, approach stone people who look nice and just chat to them. Good luck! :)
I appreciate this Northy
I really do, just today I thought about your words, i was moved and got the power to move on, I really appreciate it but the problem is that where I live am so secured and monitored I can't even do some thing's properly so I always meet the same fake friends at school every single time

[northy]

Why not join a youth group or sports team? Ask your parents/ guardians. I'm sure they won't object. Tell them how you feel. If you feel your friends at school are fake, try to meet new people there. If it goes wrong, so what? There is 7 billion people on the planet, someone will be friends. I'm always happy to talk if you feel lonely.

[ClaraWho]

I appreciate this Northy
I really do, just today I thought about your words, i was moved and got the power to move on, I really appreciate it but the problem is that where I live am so secured and monitored I can't even do some thing's properly so I always meet the same fake friends at school every single time

Seems credible. What makes them 'fake friends'?

~ Clara

[Gerald1700]

They pretend to be a friend
They take advantage of me
They are parasites
Taking up everything I have
They just dont care
I have no friend

[northy]

They pretend to be a friend
They take advantage of me
They are parasites
Taking up everything I have
They just dont care
I have no friend

The only way for you to solve this is to go and meet me people. Be proactive, I can't give any more advice. Look at what I said in my other posts.

[Semi_IronMan]

As a child I grew up without a sis and brothers but I grew up being distracted by the gifts and presents that my parents always gives me, so am at the last grade of high school in now in South Africa, but I have always had hope that one day I'll find a friend that will close a certain gap, upto now am still solitary, a different unique person alone without friends, I have no one to talk to, I only have this phone, please anyone, help
I always see some of the people being best friend but I try to get that best person but I just dont fit in
Please can anyone avail themselve as a friend am desperate now to make a friend that I can talk to here on the phone for am alone

here's what u do. find a cool guy at school and start hanging out with him before, during and after school. show that person friendship and do some fun activities together. thry catching a movie with them, go to the park, go go-carting, visit places like gold reef city, go to table mounyain, go to the zoo or go in a safari. there are a lot of things to do here in South Africa. oh and when u do the matric rage stuff u should definitely go