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[Dyri_14]

I am a 14 year old girl and I am very late bloomer and when and walking on the beach (not nudist) without a swimsuit to have a beautiful tan, because before had used bathing suit and it showed them marks it to be already quite tanned so that during the ride in a part of the beach, found a colleagues who did not give me very well (rivals) and her brothers the same international school in the country of Europe that now live ( my father), and I'm quite embarrassing because they saw me naked on the beach and then got me making fun of me and saying they were going to tell the school that saw me completely naked and I was a child (one of them took a picture) . This week at school was hell, because many people it knew this and started making jokes about my flat body and walk naked. I'm worried about this because I'm afraid that also do it with my younger sister, of being caught again by them and other colleagues her school on the beach. What should I do?

[Daniella98]

Are there any nude beaches in Iceland? I suggest you go there. If people in your school "doesnt understand nudity is natural" you probably wont meet any of them on the nude beach.

[neledisapersonne]

I couldn't understand what do you want help about. If you need help about the situation at school, there should be some teacher of some sort to help you about those guys behavior. Especially if they are showing your nude picture to other people. But if you just want to have a tan nude then that will be another thing.

[Uniquemind]

Take them to court.

[Dyri_14]

[QUOTE=Daniella98;3156681]Are there any nude beaches in Iceland? I suggest you go there. If people in your school "doesnt understand nudity is natural" you probably wont meet any of them on the nude beach.[/QUOT


I do not live in iceland, I am living in the south of Europe in the country that my father was born here, but there is some nudist beaches. I found them on a beach not nudist ..... so i can find them again because my parents like to go to that beach, while not do nudism because there a few friends who do not.

[Amber Alert]

I would tell a teacher that these guys are harassing you. As for being nude that is a perfectly normal thing, although I don't think I would have walked nude on a non nude beach. Try and find a nudist beach where you can be nude and free to to tan all you want.

[Albee]

First of all, there is nothing at all to be embarrassed about a flat chest!! Chests simply develop differently, one type of chest is no better than the other, they are simply different. Most fashion models actually have small chest sizes :)! ( And considering the other sex, guys, they do not have a preference for any single type of chest. There are scientific studies done which testify to that, different guys prefer different chest sizes.)
Therefore certainly there should be no reason to be embarrassed about your chest size!!

Secondly, considering bullying, kids will likely keep picking on you as long as they will see that it BOTHERS YOU!! So it is important that you would show that you don't care about it and that you see nothing wrong with what happened. They will likely get bored and let go of it then.

If they are aggressively making fun of you I would strongly suggest to stand up for yourself and flip them off. Yet don't allow yourself to be bothered with what they say!! There is nothing wrong with tanning naked (especially considering that you haven't even hit puberty).
Talking to a teacher and/or your parents about this ( if you are comfortable ) is definitely a good idea.

[wolf g]

don't care about them leave them talk of curs they will forget you when they found other thing to joke

[ClaraWho]

Well, whilst I personally think it wasn't appropriate for you to be strolling about naked at your age in public, that is not the main issue here.

I agree with other posters Albee regarding how everyone develops at different rates, nothing to be ashamed of and in a couple of years time won't matter at all.

In terms of them photographing you naked, I'm not sure of the laws of whichever non-specified country you live in, but in the UK that would count as creation and distribution of child pornography. I would threaten the bullies that you will inform the local police if they do not delete the picture in front of your parents, who I would also get involved.

That's if that bothers you. I mean, anyone on that beach could have seen you naked and photographed you from a distance, creeps and all. So obviously being seen naked isn't an issue for you.

Which just goes back to how everyone develops at different rates, that if you are seen to get upset they will keep going, and that this will become old news in a few weeks time. Just remember this the next time you hear a 'funny' rumour about someone else!

~ Clara

[Emerald Dream]

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