What the hell am I?

[moonie]

Hi there, haven't posted in a while. I just kind of wanted some help as to what I am.

I think I'm gay, because I have massive crushes on boys, and I'm attracted to boys. There are boys I see around, and I am soo attracted to them, but I'm never attracted to girls and I dont fancy them. I can see myself with a boy and I would like that. The only thing I am confused about is, that whilst I can wank off to gay porn, I can also wank off to straight porn. Including lesbian. But I defenetly prefer gay porn though. Is it just the thought of sex that gets me going?

Any ideas guys?

[SethfromMI]

maybe you are bi. don't be in a rush to label yourself, take time to figure things out

[northy]

As Seth said, don't be in a rush to label yourself. You could also be gay as you haven't said that you can see yourself with a girl. You might like porn / sex with girls in just because of hormones. You can be whatever you want to be.

[moonie]

Thanks guys ��

[pjones]

Hi there, haven't posted in a while. I just kind of wanted some help as to what I am.

I think I'm gay, because I have massive crushes on boys, and I'm attracted to boys. There are boys I see around, and I am soo attracted to them, but I'm never attracted to girls and I dont fancy them. I can see myself with a boy and I would like that. The only thing I am confused about is, that whilst I can wank off to gay porn, I can also wank off to straight porn. Including lesbian. But I defenetly prefer gay porn though. Is it just the thought of sex that gets me going?

Any ideas guys?

Last year, at 14, i was madly in love with my best friend that i've know since we were 6. And got aroused by all the cute boys i saw at school, in the locker room and on the beach. Was so ready to say i was gay cause i thought i definitely knew it was just boys for me. Now at 15 i have this wicked crush on a sweet girl from school and get aroused by all the cute girls and boys on the beach. Still love my best friend, and as more than a friend but can see myself long term with either gender. Next year? Who knows.

In other words, maybe you'll be like me, or maybe you have it figured out. Only you will really know the answer, but don't be afraid to give yourself time.

[DoodleSnap]

Maybe have a look at this post:

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?p=3159061#post3159061
Basically, just give yourself time to find out what you like with experience, as pornography isn't an accurate measure of one's sexuality. Be honest to yourself, and just feel comfortable being attracted to whoever, before rushing towards a label.

[moonie]

Last year, at 14, i was madly in love with my best friend that i've know since we were 6. And got aroused by all the cute boys i saw at school, in the locker room and on the beach. Was so ready to say i was gay cause i thought i definitely knew it was just boys for me. Now at 15 i have this wicked crush on a sweet girl from school and get aroused by all the cute girls and boys on the beach. Still love my best friend, and as more than a friend but can see myself long term with either gender. Next year? Who knows.

In other words, maybe you'll be like me, or maybe you have it figured out. Only you will really know the answer, but don't be afraid to give yourself time.

Thanks, that helped a lot :) I think I'm like you, but ive got ages to figure it out so yay.

Thanks again :D

[AutumnWinds]

i don't mean this at all bitchy and i apologize if it comes off that way...

i wouldn't worry about classifying yourself. it limits you. instead of wondering if you're gay or straight or bi, just realize you're you. if you want to watch gay porn watch it. if you wanna watch straight or lesbian porn watch that too. date a guy if you want, date a girl if you want. do whatever makes YOU happy.

remember all words are things we as a species have created to make us feel like we understand or have power over things. they're meant to adhere to you, you're not meant to adhere to them.

Hi there, haven't posted in a while. I just kind of wanted some help as to what I am.

I think I'm gay, because I have massive crushes on boys, and I'm attracted to boys. There are boys I see around, and I am soo attracted to them, but I'm never attracted to girls and I dont fancy them. I can see myself with a boy and I would like that. The only thing I am confused about is, that whilst I can wank off to gay porn, I can also wank off to straight porn. Including lesbian. But I defenetly prefer gay porn though. Is it just the thought of sex that gets me going?

Any ideas guys?

[ashdaniel]

I dont see there are any problem. Questioning about sexuality is pretty normal as teenager. If you not sure, you can try out both. You are still young. Just do what you feel like and be positive.

[PaleBoy]

Perhaps you might be gay, just give it time.

[Zachary G]

im gay and i get off to some straight porn, too. I know Im not bi because I love being with a boy way too much, so I just thing that its the idea of the sex that gets me off more than anything else.

[Jackieboii]

Don't think about it at all because only time will tell

[Freetobeme]

I sometimes think girls bodies are beautiful even though I'm sure I'm gay. What does it matter as long as you're having fun.

[niklas]

I think it's pretty normal to be feeling lots of different things when you're going through puberty. As others have said, don't worry about labeling yourself, I personally think labels are all bullsh*t anyway. Just be who you are.

[Bluebyrd]

I'd say the latter

[SkyClad33605]

Don't worry with labels. Just be you. Don't force anything.

That said, I have a few friends that are lesbians (they prefer the "D" word but I don't know if I can say it here). But they prefer to watch gay (male) porn, because they say that it's the homosexuality that turns them on. Also 99% of lesbian porn is made for straight men to enjoy.

[Andre 99]

Labels are for products.
Sexuality is fluid. You my identify as gay and the next day see one girl that gets you aroused.