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Tony X
June 16th, 2015, 11:42 AM
I'm 17, and for almost 4 years I've known deep down in myself that I'm gay. However, I'm not publicly gay.
I was attracted to guys, I watched gay-porn, and I masturbated and found pleasure from gay porn and gay fantasies.

But, I've just realized that I'm Bi.
I've recently fallen in love with a girl. She's smart, interesting, and very pretty. And she arouses me. We train together (sports team) and I see her every day. Recently, we started texting/snapchatting a lot, but we talk in real life too, just not as much cause even though we practice together, we're always busy (and there's ppl around).
And I think about her every second of my day, and I think about kissing her, going on dates, etc. This is not a -crush-. I'm in love.

(A lot of personal information is about to be told, so you are warned).
Also, another reason why I think that I must be Bi is because whenever I've masturbated for about a week now, I look up gay porn or just fantasize in my head to get turned on, but when I'm about to "climax", my mind completely changes the image of guys from to the girl that I'm in love with. I picture me having sex with her, I picture her naked. And I actually felt a LOT of pleasure that I haven't felt in a long time.

I don't think I'm "confused", but I know I'm definitely Bi.

Vermilion
June 16th, 2015, 12:10 PM
Good for you Tony :)

Zachary G
June 16th, 2015, 12:15 PM
Way to go dude! Im happy for you that you figured it all out for yourself. I wish you much happiness.

DoodleSnap
June 21st, 2015, 02:57 PM
I think it's great that your perception has broadened and you have found such a special person in your life! Congratulations.

danny87786
June 22nd, 2015, 10:21 PM
Wow that was well said. I thought I was the only one who was having this struggle inside but I guess not. I don't feel alone anymore.

SethfromMI
June 23rd, 2015, 07:54 AM
well good for you man. yes I would say you are bi too. haha. congrats on finding someone special

NotQuiteANerd97
November 1st, 2015, 01:23 AM
Good for you :)

Guys are more bluntly sexual than girls in a lot of ways, so it's common for bicurious teen boys to be more sexually attracted to guys and more emotionally to girls. Sometimes they equalize a bit more later on, other times the attraction to males reduces. Just give yourself time.

Abhorrence
November 1st, 2015, 03:52 AM
Good for you :)

Guys are more bluntly sexual than girls in a lot of ways, so it's common for bicurious teen boys to be more sexually attracted to guys and more emotionally to girls. Sometimes they equalize a bit more later on, other times the attraction to males reduces. Just give yourself time.

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