First time sexual experience.

[Baconator]

Today I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time in my life. We're currently 17, 18 later this month. Cutting to the chase, I've had many blow jobs from her before and I have felt pleasure but nothing close to climax pleasure. Today we agreed that we were both comfortable with having sex so we got into it. I got her to cum which wasn't too difficult. I was going for a good 30 minutes. It felt amazing around my penis but nothing like the feeling of masturbating or reaching a climax. I know masturbating is completely different from sex because you cause it and you can control the grip. But to me it felt little to no pleasure and it'd take me hours to finally ejaculate. I used a condom, yes.

Is this sexual feeling normal to have minimal pleasure around your genital area or should I be feeling a more intense pleasure?

[NZPerson]

Maybe using the condom helped stop pleasure but some times thats good because you can last longer! 30min like you said is long when te average is 10min.

[Gwen]

My guess would be a thick condom or one with a numbing agent possibly.

[Bluebyrd]

I don't know if this is too visual or whatever but maybe she just had a big ....

[Uranus]

Do you have similar experiences during masturbation?
Were you nervous? If you were you might have been so nervous you were so focused on pleasuring her and trying not to mess up (Orgasming early) you didn't have time to really notice any pleasure.

[Baconator]

I don't know if this is too visual or whatever but maybe she just had a big ....

She was a virgin until yesterday.

[Ricky.h]

Today I had sex with my girlfriend for the first time in my life. We're currently 17, 18 later this month. Cutting to the chase, I've had many blow jobs from her before and I have felt pleasure but nothing close to climax pleasure. Today we agreed that we were both comfortable with having sex so we got into it. I got her to cum which wasn't too difficult. I was going for a good 30 minutes. It felt amazing around my penis but nothing like the feeling of masturbating or reaching a climax. I know masturbating is completely different from sex because you cause it and you can control the grip. But to me it felt little to no pleasure and it'd take me hours to finally ejaculate. I used a condom, yes.

Is this sexual feeling normal to have minimal pleasure around your genital area or should I be feeling a more intense pleasure?

I've had sex a lot of times, and this has never happened to me and I don't use condoms BUT sometimes depending on the girl I have to so if the condom is too thick it can be an adjustment when you're used to tout raw....but that's just me
So maybe get a thinner condom (so many commercials about them)
Were you nervous? Maybe you just need to relax

I have endurance where I can last a long time but that's concentration, so it's good that you naturally taking a long time to nut, lasting long is a good thing

[Second Chance]

I'm guessing that because this was your first time is why it was not so pleasurable. For most of us our first times are really hard because we're nervous and are getting used to knowing what goes where which is why I am guessing you did not have such a great time. Personally, I would give yourself time, and I am sure the next couple times you have sex it will get better than your first time. You just need practice with sex to find what works best for you and your girlfriend. Just make sure you both are open with each other on what works and what does not because that is the only way sex is going to work.

It is great that you used a condom, and you can never go wrong doing that. Definitley do not have sex without a condom to get a better feeling because that is pretty risky especially since you're 18. There are thin condoms on the market, but I would stick to what you have now unless every time you have sex it is a drag. Lube is definitely your friend, and you might need to use it to make sure you and your girlfriend don't have friction.

I know things will get better for you, and as long as you and your girlfriend work with each other during sex letting each other know how you feel as opposed to impressing each other or assuming the other likes something, then you get a lot more pleasure. Sex is like riding a bicycle, and you get better with practice.

[Jaffe]

I've only had sex with girls 3 times, so not much experience but I can tell you that the first time was.... different. I was thinking about 100 different things, all vaguely related to what we were doing, but not really understanding or concentrating on the physical feelings. When you jerk off, your head is 100% with you. In sex, its not. My first time, my head was like 1% or maybe 0% on pleasure, and distracted by "am I doing this right" and "is she still gonna be my friend if I screw this up" and "omg I hope I dont cum too soon but how do I not" and lots and lots of other stuff.

Of my 3 experiences, the 1st was just totally weird, and the 3rd was the best. I'm told it gets better and better, so don't stress the first time, just keep going.