My friend wont talk to me and I don't know why?

[Snydergate]

We became friends through work and started to hang out a lot. We shared snapchats so we could talk to each other, it was his idea to share snapchats btw. We hung out once a week or so and usually right after getting off work we would walk around for a while and talk. Fast forward a few months and the store we worked at closed down, he went to another store and I went somewhere else too. We didn't hang out as much, but we would still snap every other day or so. But just a few weeks ago we were in the middle of snapping and for some reason my snaps stopped delivering and would say pending. I looked it up and when that happens, that mean the person you are snapping has deleted you as a friend and it cannot be sent. I re-sent the friend request and it said there was no profile matching his name. I haven't seen or heard from him since. I still see him posting stuff on his Instagram all happy and stuff, and i left a funny reply to his pic a few days ago and my comment had been deleted a few hours later. What do happened do you think? I never said anything to upset him ever and when we were snapping that day, it was just a casual conversation.

[ImCoolBeans]

Have you tried messaging him directly or texting him to see what's up? I'm not really sure what it could have been just based on that -- you should ask him if everything is OK or if you had said something to upset him.

[SethfromMI]

try to ask him in person what happened. unfortunately, there is no way to say what he is or maybe thinking

[Gerald1700]

Try getting his attention somehow
Call him
See what's the problem
Don't be angry but just humble and cool

[Sarcastic Cupcake]

Call him or talk with him face-to-face. It's possible that his account was broken into, meaning that he wasn't the one doing that stuff. Talking face-to-face or on the phone insures that there are no miscommunications.

[AcuteVision]

💁 well it might not be you if there's no obvious reason

[northy]

Try and meet him in person and think what you may have done wrong. He wouldn't have done that for no reason or it could have been accidental.

[Uniquemind]

What others have said.

But also sometimes distance and time alone are main factors about why friendships dissipate.


And sometimes you just gotta move on with life and not overthink it.

[ashdaniel]

Well, it is a pretty obvious message. We were friend but we are not. You two meet through work and you two doesnt hang out anymore. It means your friend or ex friends just feel like it doesnt get anywhere. Sad thing is people are like that. You just have to get real. Some time, people use others to spend the boring time. Sorry, to say this but I have see the ugly side of the society and I study sociology before. People does act like this. If some one delete you from social media or your comment. One straight message, I don't want you to do anything with your life. If he doesnt want to talk to you because he just dont want to talk to you or embarrass to tell you why. Maybe I think too negative but this is my perspective from what you say. I hope this help.