Is there hope?

[Tony X]

I texted the girl of my dreams today if she wanted to hang out with me, and this is how it went.
I want you guys to tell me what you think; is there hope or not?
Some background: I talk to this girl often, we see each other every day cause we're on the same swim team.

*For sake of privacy, I will change the personal names/locations that are involved within the convo.

Me: Hey I might go to location tonight, would you want to hang out?

Her: hey I would love to but I can't. I'm gonna be at the beach with so, so and so.

Me: Oh yea I remember now when you told me that and that other so wasn't invited. -some emoji-

Her: oh yea -some emoji-

Me: Well how about sometime next week?

Her: yea sure


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Anything is appreciated, guys :x

thanks! :)

[ClaraWho]

Seriously?

She had other plans already made, she said she'd love to otherwise. Calm down and stop trying to rush anything.

[Tony X]

Seriously?

She had other plans already made, she said she'd love to otherwise. Calm down and stop trying to rush anything.

So what do I do next time I see her?

[ClaraWho]

So what do I do next time I see her?

Act normal as if nothing happened, because nothing happened. She might not have even realised you meant as a date!

Ask her out directly in person for next weekend.

~ Clara

[Microcosm]

Agreed with Clara. Remember, you're in no rush when it comes to these things. There's no need to pressure her or yourself. Just subtly bring it up to her next week and see what she says, but don't be too pushy about it.

[ClaraWho]

Agreed with Clara. Remember, you're in no rush when it comes to these things. There's no need to pressure her or yourself. Just subtly bring it up to her next week and see what she says, but don't be too pushy about it.

I say don't be subtle about it lol. That's part of the problem. You like her? Say so. You want to ask her out? Make sure she knows you mean a date!

If she says she isn't interested, play it cool. Just smile, say something like 'if you don't ask you don't get, right?' Then move on.

By asking her out you are complimenting her, it's only awkward if you make it so.

~ Clara

[lucasboiesen]

Relax bro, there is hope

[Jaffe]

If you meant it as a date, ask her in person (you already broke the ice). If you meant it just to hang out, and other friends will be there too, then in person or a text or chat or whatever is fine. Or maybe call her .....

The convo above, I don't even think she understood what you were asking. I thought, as I read it, that you and some friends were going to be somewhere, and you were inviting her to join your group.

So yeah, there is hope. Just try it again.

[DoodleSnap]

As others have said, don't rush into it!
Try not to over-analyse the situation, as she is probably just saying what she means.
Think about it as if you were her: would you expect her to read into every single little word and wonder what it means in relation to a different topic?
Anyone can pick apart conversations until the cows come home, but the only way to really find out how she feels is to ask her.
Relationships are built on communication and honesty, so try ask her if she wants to go out sometimes, and see where it takes you.
There is always hope.
Good luck.