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June 12th, 2015, 05:40 PM
alright guys a couple of minuites ago I just got sent a nude from a girl I met like 10 minuites ago on kick when we were talking. That was my first nude ever sent to me and she wanted one back, but I just left because my anxiety problems just kinda made me panic alittle. What I'm asking is should I let or stayed. :what:

NZPerson
June 12th, 2015, 06:16 PM
Never send a pic if they know u or can track you.

pjones
June 12th, 2015, 06:32 PM
never send pics to anyone you don't know, nude or with clothes. you have no control over what happens to them so be safe.

Jdog5513
June 12th, 2015, 11:03 PM
Do what you feel like, if you like her and you want to make her happy, go for it, just don't show your face as it could be shown on Facebook or something :)

hyperdude
June 12th, 2015, 11:08 PM
someone in here convinced me to install kik and imediately i realize .. its just mostly perverts there it seems like.. creepy crap place! if my mom found out i had it on my phone shed probably force me to delete it!

nklarke
June 12th, 2015, 11:22 PM
What's important is if you send them, don't show your face!

Sam-9876
June 13th, 2015, 01:58 AM
What's important is if you send them, don't show your face!

nklarke is right, don't send her stuff where ur recognisable.

I know a lad who uses an app to save photos of girls off snapchat without them knowing he's screenshotted them. Not cool.

That's why I don't do facepics on my snapchat!

jam98
June 14th, 2015, 11:39 AM
nklarke is right, don't send her stuff where ur recognisable.

I know a lad who uses an app to save photos of girls off snapchat without them knowing he's screenshotted them. Not cool.

That's why I don't do facepics on my snapchat!

I completely agree with both of these two - it's your decision whether you want to send one back, but make sure they can't see your face, otherwise things might go badly wrong if they were shared, as people would recognise you; if you don't include your face, then there's a much smaller chance of anything bad happening.

Canadian Dream
June 14th, 2015, 11:56 AM
Not a good idea, I don't know how kik works but block her if possible, it's illegal to do this.

Zachary G
June 14th, 2015, 12:34 PM
Its never a good idea to send any type of nude or lewd pic over apps like kik or snapchat because you never really know who you are sending things too... and how do you kn ow the pictures they are sending you are really of themselves? You dont. Just dont do what you dont feel comfortable with, but use your best judgement.

Body odah Man
June 14th, 2015, 12:46 PM
alright guys a couple of minuites ago I just got sent a nude from a girl I met like 10 minuites ago on kick when we were talking. That was my first nude ever sent to me and she wanted one back, but I just left because my anxiety problems just kinda made me panic alittle. What I'm asking is should I let or stayed. :what:

Avoid kik. Disgusting place filled with sex addicts.
However, it's good you didn't send a nude pic, you NEVER know who you're sending it to and what they will do with it.

Snydergate
June 14th, 2015, 05:08 PM
It's up to you man. If u can trust her then yeah give it a ponder but if not then no.

northy
June 14th, 2015, 05:35 PM
Mate, don't take nudes. Ever.
It'll only end badly!

SethfromMI
June 14th, 2015, 07:50 PM
I never recommend anyone taking nudes

pie134
June 14th, 2015, 08:19 PM
don't do it

Georgysmith
June 16th, 2015, 04:55 AM
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Bluebyrd
June 16th, 2015, 03:29 PM
I would but I wouldn't show my face because if you don't then no one will be able to relate the picture with yourself.

everlong
June 16th, 2015, 03:43 PM
If you feel even slightly uncomfortable sending nudes, don't do it.

Uranus
June 16th, 2015, 04:44 PM
If you feel uncomfortable in any way, don't send any. And if someone sends you one, and wants one back, you are in no way obligated to send them. I believe that sexting is ok, IF:

There is no way to tell who it is,
It's someone you know,
You don't have your face in the picture,
And if you and your partner are both comfortable sending and receiving nude photography. It's like alcohol, people say it's bad because of what can happen, but if you're mature about it, and be careful, it's not really dangerous.

Second Chance
June 17th, 2015, 03:25 PM
alright guys a couple of minuites ago I just got sent a nude from a girl I met like 10 minuites ago on kick when we were talking. That was my first nude ever sent to me and she wanted one back, but I just left because my anxiety problems just kinda made me panic alittle. What I'm asking is should I let or stayed. :what:

Leaving was the right thing to do, and you never want to send out nudes. You have no way of knowing if the person is real on the other end, and someone might be trying to bait you to send them something. Anyone who is asking you for nudes is someone who is best avoided.

Even if you are in a relationship with someone you never want to send out nudes because if that person gets angry with you or if you break up, then they still have the naked photographs. It's one thing if you want to get naked together, but it is never a good idea to take photographs of doing that. You see what happens all of the time to those big stars who get nudes leaked, and you don't want your body being wanking material for perverts or open yourself up for someone blackmailing you with nudes.

jssixna
June 17th, 2015, 03:31 PM
If you just met her on kik, you don't have to give one. You'll never see her in person. She can't do anything to you.

Cognizant
June 17th, 2015, 04:41 PM
My philosophy on sharing photos over the internet is "don't share anything you don't want the world to see". You can't expect the person to be honest and keep it to themselves. So if you don't want to run the risk of the entire internet and/or your fellow peers seeing your dick, then don't share anything.

You can't also expect the person to be real. I've been catfished by 60 year olds before. It sucks, but I learned my lesson. But if you understand the consequences, it's up to you. I personally don't have a problem with either so I don't really mind sharing (I do NOT share with VT members though, mods :P), but I have considered what I've said above and everyone else should too.

paletanner
June 17th, 2015, 07:14 PM
alright guys a couple of minuites ago I just got sent a nude from a girl I met like 10 minuites ago on kick when we were talking. That was my first nude ever sent to me and she wanted one back, but I just left because my anxiety problems just kinda made me panic alittle. What I'm asking is should I let or stayed. :what:

i wouldn't send one. she might not even be real!

herokidd
June 18th, 2015, 04:17 AM
If you're not 18 then you shouldn't even be sending pics but if you are then go ahead but don't show your face like a lotof these guys said

danny87786
June 18th, 2015, 01:12 PM
You don't have a gun poitned to your head so if you don't want to send a pic you don't have to. You do what makes you feel comftable okay.

paletanner
June 20th, 2015, 03:59 PM
You don't have a gun poitned to your head so if you don't want to send a pic you don't have to. You do what makes you feel comftable okay.

yeah this!!!