Is that attractive?

[ZzeWatermelon]

Do guys like it when girls dress up and down, so can look all fancy one day and chill with jeans, messy bun and sweater the next?
What do you think? Do guys like that?

[Seahawks15]

I like it,as long as they will dress nice for dates and not come looking like a skater punk in torn jeans,backwards hat and a hoodie.

[WintersuN]

When you use the terms 'dress up and down', I'm not too sure what you're referring to exactly.

[Danny_boi 16]

I don't think it's a question of attraction, maybe it is, I don't know. I just prefer in when people dress nice. I'm bi, so both guys and girls should dress nice even "messy nice".

[Jaffe]

I like a girl -- or a guy -- who can and does dress to who they are AND to how they feel. I want her to be comfortable, and express who she is, at the same time. (If those two don't go together, she probably isn't expressing who she really is...) I really don't do the formal date thing, just hang out mostly, or go do casual stuff. But I think I'd still have the same attitude about a real date. But hey, high school dances the next few years, maybe I'll get brave enough to actually go to one. Probably not though.

[Uniquemind]

It's about being appropriately dressed according to the occasion which will rely on social context.


Jaffed also has a point.

[Danny_boi 16]

I like a girl -- or a guy -- who can and does dress to who they are AND to how they feel. I want her to be comfortable, and express who she is, at the same time. (If those two don't go together, she probably isn't expressing who she really is...) I really don't do the formal date thing, just hang out mostly, or go do casual stuff. But I think I'd still have the same attitude about a real date. But hey, high school dances the next few years, maybe I'll get brave enough to actually go to one. Probably not though.

Is it too late to take my post back? I wanna replace it with this one.

[ZzeWatermelon]

Okay. I see. It's a question of looking appopriate.

[ClaraWho]

If a guy is more interested in what you wear than who you are, you've got bigger fish to fry than his fashion sense.

He should like you for who you are, regardless of whether you are dressed casually or formally. Obviously turning up to meet his parents for the first time in a torn hoody and revealing yoga pants would be inappropriate.

So long as what you wear is clean, presentable, not explicitly revealing - he shouldn't really have any issues!

[ZzeWatermelon]

Okay, I see. :) Thanks

[mxracing21]

If she can look good both ways that's a great thing

[SethfromMI]

If she can look good both ways that's a great thing

haha exactly. I don't expect my girl friend to get all fancy all the time, she looks great no matter what

[DoodleSnap]

I like a girl -- or a guy -- who can and does dress to who they are AND to how they feel. I want her to be comfortable, and express who she is, at the same time. (If those two don't go together, she probably isn't expressing who she really is...) I really don't do the formal date thing, just hang out mostly, or go do casual stuff. But I think I'd still have the same attitude about a real date. But hey, high school dances the next few years, maybe I'll get brave enough to actually go to one. Probably not though.
^My feelings exactly.
I do like a variation in styles, with good casual and formal clothing, and an eclectic set of outfits is really cool!
Preferences will differ from one person to the next, but you know someone is special when they love you for who you are, and simply being comfortable in your own identity without acting as someone else.
I hope all goes well.

[Cronor]

I don't expect girls to walk around in fu'ing high heels and tonnes of makeup.
I expect to see them walking like they just came out of a drug den even less.

Just stay casual all the time, personal hygiene number one, and try to maintain yourself. The kind of outfit that you've written for day 1 ( Fancy, 'eh ) should only be for special occasions. I can tell you that it's weird to see a girl dressed up abnormally on a normal day.

Just imagine if you saw a guy come to school in a tuxedo and a bowtie >_<