Best Friend

[Leemac1999]

Firstly I(16) am straight but the past week or so I've fallen in love with my best friend , a guy(16). I love him , he funny and a nice guy. He is straight too and we carry on and pretend to be gay and talk about sex and stuff but that gets me so hard. When he says stuff like sick my dick or lets fuck (joking) I want to just grab him and suck his cock. I really don't want to be gay or tell him , what should I do ?

[Dreamer98]

Firstly I(16) am straight but the past week or so I've fallen in love with my best friend

Sorry , but that's impossible . In that case you must be BI or even gay .


I want to just grab him and suck his cock. I really don't want to be gay or tell him , what should I do ?

You should be honest , and get deeper in your conscience to make clear everything . You can't be straight and fall in love in your male friend at the same time . That's problem you must solve by yourself , because no one can help you . You can pretend , or to be what you really are . Choice is on you ...

[ashdaniel]

First, you are 16. Puberty still occurs in you and hormone work in your body. Don't classify youself as str , bi or gay. As time goes, you will have a better understanding of yourself and in the mean time go ahead and experience if you like. Don't over think the situation, do want you feel comfortable that doesn't hurry yourself or other. At this stage of your life, you just need to relax and enjoy because you only experience teenage or once.

[Hey_123]

Just be honest with him

[Jdog5513]

So your either bi or gay and just be straight up honest with him. Tell him you want to jerk together or something to try for like experimenting and then talk about possibly giving hand jobs and blow jobs and he might be ok with it

[Bluebyrd]

If I were you I'd start to do whatever it is he's joking about. If he pulls away and is freaked out or whatever, you've always got the excuse that you were joking. If he lets you do it then it's your dream come true!

[Ian23]

Just go for it. He is probably thinking the same things that you are.

[masterofdisaster1997]

Dude forge bout labels like bi or gay. You have feelings for him and that is what you have to deal with first. Be honest and open with him. Tell him how important he is that you have him as a friend and you dont want to lose him. Ask him how he feels and then ask where you both go from there.

Make sure that you explain you are bringing this up because you respect him and want to know what hes feeling also.

Good luck

[SethfromMI]

if he is not homophobic, possibly have a dialogue and say what if or would you possibly be interested...

understand though it may make him feel uncomfortable and could cause friction between the two of you

[badblood]

Oh,And I go through the same situation...4 years...

[CuriousConner]

If you have love for a guy then that's not straight. But no need for labels... Be you

[Fleek]

Play along

[gig-guy]

Next time he tells you to suck his dick just be like "ok" and see where it goes from there, say stuff like "if you tell me to do it so much then you must really want it". Just go for it man!

[Mark2000]

Like everyone is saying go for it.

[Reg_]

Just tell him how you feel that's what I would do

[NoName2001]

I have the same situation with a friend! I saw go for it but i am too chicken to do it myself

[Snydergate]

if he is not homophobic, possibly have a dialogue and say what if or would you possibly be interested...

understand though it may make him feel uncomfortable and could cause friction between the two of you

Yeah I agree, be careful about how you approach the situation with him

[jeans_kid]

Is he really straight? Perhaps he is bi? If he is straight and he thinks you're straight, it'd be strange for him not to talk about girls with you. Does he have a girlfriend? Just wait and see how things develop.. if he's bi, things will happen when the time comes..

[Abhorrence]

I think before anything else maybe you should try exploring your sexuality a little bit. Saying you're outright straight and then going on to say you want to "suck his cock" kind of contradicts that first statement slightly for me. Anyways, I guess if you had to you should probably talk to him about it. Like, maybe just mention some things. I don't really recommend putting your feelings straight out there and I also don't recommend in general pursuing much because you'll most likely only end up getting hurt.

[GoGoDiego]

Firstly I(16) am straight but the past week or so I've fallen in love with my best friend , a guy(16). I love him , he funny and a nice guy. He is straight too and we carry on and pretend to be gay and talk about sex and stuff but that gets me so hard. When he says stuff like sick my dick or lets fuck (joking) I want to just grab him and suck his cock. I really don't want to be gay or tell him , what should I do ?

Ask him if he is quite open to that situation to experiment. If he is quite open, go ahead and suck him.

[Txfri1350]

Tell him and let us know what happens

[sysrq]

I wish I had a friend like that. I think it's better to do it than dwell on it for the rest of your life like other people do. On the other hand you never know where it might lead afterwards, he can suddenly go abroad/overseas or relocate to another city to study or due to any other thing.

[ejpete]

Be open. But not obvious maybe start with why are we joking around. Are we serious? Maybe when he says let's fuck say ok let's do it. We are always joking let's see what happens? Maybe try that?

[EddieHoward96]

Sounds to me like a lot of it has to do with hormones on your part
But if there are genuine underlying feelings for him, i think you may have to come to terms with the fact that you're not completely straight, which is perfectly fine & nothing to be ashamed of =)

[Turtl3]

Just speak to him, that's the only way anything will happen!