dating

[LynnM]

hey guys! so I really like this guy and we fool around sometimes like friends with benefits. so he asked me out about 4 or 5 times and as much as I like him, I declined every time because I know he's just desperate for any girl and he doesn't like me that way. I really wanna go out with him but I want him to really like me first. what should I do if he asks me out again? thanks xxx

[skittle]

Say yes!
Clearly that's what you want, and if it will make you happy, I say go for it!
Also, if he's being that persistent maybe he likes you more than you think. If you're looking to actually start a relationship with him though, instead of just FWB, make it clear early on that you want things to be exclusive? And that you won't continue dating him if he doesn't agree. If he does agree, it means that he wants to be with you enough to agree to not pursue other girls.
If not, then at least you know for sure.
Good luck, keep us updated!

[ImCoolBeans]

Well, you already have a sexual relationship, and he's showing you that he's interested in developing more of a romantic relationship with you. Especially since he's asked you out 5 times now. If you want to date him then say yes, he's already asked persistently.

[Uniquemind]

hey guys! so I really like this guy and we fool around sometimes like friends with benefits. so he asked me out about 4 or 5 times and as much as I like him, I declined every time because I know he's just desperate for any girl and he doesn't like me that way. I really wanna go out with him but I want him to really like me first. what should I do if he asks me out again? thanks xxx

Tell him that the reasoning why you've declined him.

[Hey_123]

Say yes and see how it feels to date him.

[mxracing21]

Say yes you never know how either one of your feelings will develop after dating.

[Caissa]

As the other said. YES! If he has asked you he is interested in you? See how it works out. It sounds like you almost already are.

[MichelleNi]

I would recommend to speak about your feelings.. you can see if he's the right one, based on his reactions