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ZzeWatermelon
June 6th, 2015, 08:02 AM
My guy friend went recently through a bad breakup, and he misses the girl. What can I tell him, without making it worse? How can I help?

Vermilion
June 6th, 2015, 08:48 AM
That's she is no good for him, once he's over her a bit make sure to remind him of the fun he is having without her.

Bmble_B
June 6th, 2015, 09:50 AM
Just try to remind him of the good times he has had before his relationship with said girl. Also how there will be plenty of other girls out there, this is just one break up.

Uniquemind
June 6th, 2015, 12:24 PM
Let him mourn the failed relationship for 3 days. After which make to clear you are going to take him out to do something to distract him:

1. Shopping for new toys, video games

2. Pranks/ joke-telling

3. Help him date other girls and move on.

Zachary G
June 6th, 2015, 12:39 PM
just be there for him, give him a listening board, and be honest with him when he asks you questions. be the friend you would want if you were in that situation

ZzeWatermelon
June 7th, 2015, 02:20 AM
Let him mourn the failed relationship for 3 days. After which make to clear you are going to take him out to do something to distract him:

1. Shopping for new toys, video games

2. Pranks/ joke-telling

3. Help him date other girls and move on.


I can't really meet him. We live far away from each other.

ZzeWatermelon
June 7th, 2015, 02:20 AM
Just try to remind him of the good times he has had before his relationship with said girl. Also how there will be plenty of other girls out there, this is just one break up.

But will it be enough to mention other girls if this one girl counts only?

Uniquemind
June 7th, 2015, 04:11 AM
I can't really meet him. We live far away from each other.

The do your best virtually.