Are they crazy?

[Peteriel]

Hello again :o
I'm writing in here, because I think that would be the best place.
I have problem with my family.
My dad and brother are getting furious, when someone tells them they are wrong. My grandma is the one who tells it the most times.
But they are starting to get to close to her. My brother kicks her in her legs. She is old and it is really painful for her. He is like the beast :o
And my mum seems to ignore it.
She tells my brother it's innocent and he can tell whatever he wants. I got used to hear: faggot but I can't see and can't stand when he bullies my grandma.
I don't know what to do... I'm trying to explain to my mother that he is bad,, but she doesn't care...
I don't want to call police, but I want to change something ...

[PsychoticReality]

Hello,
You are right, that is quite a problem and you shouldn't ever tolerate anyone being rude to you or harming someone anyone- let alone someone you care about. I suggest confronting them about their behaviour with a group of family members and possibly in a public place to prevent any conflict between the pair of you. If it progresses and things do get worse, the best cause of action may be to get someone of authority involved as their actions begin to put not only yourself but others in danger.

Take care and stay strong!

[Peteriel]

Thank you! :D
I've already written to my brother's godfather's daughter and let her know about the situation. I asked her to tell about it to her dad. My brother respects him and he can help and explain how he should behave.
I can't stand it anymore!
The authority must wait. I don't want him to become more agressive.

[Conqueror of Hearts]

Peteriel

It is really an awful thing to do to any person, what your brother is doing to your grandma. It's very brave of you to try make them stop....I think you did the right thing by informing a family member about the case. I really hope things get better, for all of you.

You're brother seems to have problems with anger and controlling his emotions, how old is he?

-xx

[Microcosm]

Peteriel,

Personally, I'd suggest confronting your dad and your brother in a mature way. If that doesn't work, then try personally defending your grandma in these situations. Like, stand up to them and reprimand them for their actions as they are doing them. This method puts their behavioral problem right before their eyes and shows them the problem up close, making them think about it more deeply.

[Peteriel]

Hey!
It's me again with new days of these pathetic situations.
I could confront my brother with dad but I doubt it would make some changes.
Because my dad is just the same type of person. He bullies my grandma and her mother to...
It's hard for me to watch when my dad tells to her mother that she is stupid and crazy. Grandma sometimes tells wrong things, but son can't say such a things.
And my brother starts to be the same. He talks with mum like friend and sometimes tells her she is an idiot... And he has those newspapers with naked girls pictures and he shows it to mum or dad...
I'm tired of it because I have problems in school so I can't help them anymore...