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Underground_Network
April 12th, 2008, 07:33 PM
Yeah.. I could use some help. :P

There's this girl I really like, and I'm 99% sure she likes me back... I just need to know how to ask her out. We're not friends, we don't hang out, etc... So I can't just "act natural" and say something like "you wanna go to the movies" because that would probably just completely catch her off guard. I should probably get to know her better to tell you the truth. But I'm just not sure what to say. I've made it my goal to talk to her on Monday, and possibly even ask her out; but I need to know what to say. I mean, I know she shares some similar interests with me, but still I don't know how to bring them up. The only thing I could probably think of to say is hi. I turn off girls a lot because when they try to talk to me or flirt with me I turn them down or just don't respond. I just suck around girls... I just need to know what to say... If you tell me what to say, I'll take your advice and say it. I'm desperate to know what to say, because I really, really like this girl. At first I began to question myself, because she's not as physically attractive as some other girls I've "crushed" on, but still, I've come to realize that she is really beautiful and she's got a great personality and shares interests with me. My one friend whom I'm not even sure deserves the title of "friend" isn't exactly hot or popular in my school, but outside of school he gets all these fucking beautiful chicks.. He says he just tells them they're beautiful and tells them how much they love them... But wouldn't that be awkward conversation if you were speaking to a girl you hardly knew? Yeah, at this point I just have no clue.. Help pwz. :)

dudesweet101
April 13th, 2008, 10:57 AM
I would ask her where she likes to hang out and stuff. Ask her if she would like to hang out sometime. IF you cant ask her out in person ask her if you can call her sometime.
You just got to go for it. You aint got anything to lose.

As far as telling her hows she beautiful. Just stare into her eyes and be like wow ur eyes are amazing or something like that.

Underground_Network
April 13th, 2008, 04:04 PM
Thats great advice. I'll try my best to follow it.. This is the last week before vacation.. I hope I don't coward out... Grr...

scatman
April 13th, 2008, 11:39 PM
ask her out in person the worst she can say is no

Sage
April 13th, 2008, 11:47 PM
the worst she can say is no

Actually I could think of much worse things she could say, but I agree, just do it.

Underground_Network
April 14th, 2008, 03:12 PM
Meh, I didn't have the opportunity to do it today.. I'll try again tomorrow...

ScotsGirl
April 14th, 2008, 04:03 PM
Goodluck for tomorrow! :D
And dont wait for the opportunity...make the opportunity! ;)

xxx

Underground_Network
April 14th, 2008, 04:06 PM
Yeah, but today was just a frigged up day in general, I was too busy talking to my friend first period and I barely noticed her... Which I regret because she was extremely hot today. :wink:... But yeah.. I don't know.. I'm really self-conscious about my looks and I don't really think I'm all that attractive.. Plus I'm worried that I've been "reading" her wrong... I mean she's made eye contact with me before and just judging by how she's acted around me I figure she likes me.. But I'm just so worried that she actually doesn't. I don't wanna screw up, but I'm Mr. Screw Up.. so yeah... :/ It just sucks... I have a lot more confidence than I've had in the past, but I'm not quite sure its enough...

ScotsGirl
April 14th, 2008, 04:17 PM
Hug? :P
:hug:
hehe!

But dont talk yourself down! :(
There is no reason for her not to like you!
Just take a deep breath and go for it. You will never know unless you try, right?
If she says yes, thats great, if she says no, then thats great too (not for her though! ;) ) because either way you have leapt over your confidence barrier that has held you back from asking girls out in the past, and that is a huuuge step :)

xxx