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spain2000
June 4th, 2015, 11:47 PM
Hello folks,
I might surprise you with my question, but here is the deal. Is it ok to go to sleep with some precum in my boxers, or should I change them, at night? And it is ok to sleep with some semen on me, as well?
I am asking because whenever I have sex with my girlfriend, well, we clean each other with Kleenex and baby wipes, but then I still leak some precum, during the night because I am horny.
I am afraid that I may inadvertently scratch my penis and balls and then with semen/precum on my hands, touch other things in my room. And I don't want these fluids in my room, is this a plausible scenario or I am OCD?

Thanks, folks

Dreamer98
June 5th, 2015, 04:27 AM
Well , to be honest that isn't really hygienic . I would take shower in such case . And try to pee after you cum , because you clean your urethra on that way from leftover semen . :D

lucaboy
June 5th, 2015, 04:48 AM
I usually take some Kleenex or my used undies to clean myself after I wanked off before I wanna sleep. A few stains on undies or bedding arenīt a big deal though. If you got a wet dream at night you would be full of cum, too. When you are really wet, you should wipe your jizz off I think, just to make not everything dirty. I donīt like to shower or pee after my night wank because Iīm always feeling relaxed and sleepy afterwards, and getting up again would wake me up. :D

spain2000
June 5th, 2015, 05:00 AM
I usually take some Kleenex or my used undies to clean myself after I wanked off before I wanna sleep. A few stains on undies or bedding arenīt a big deal though. If you got a wet dream at night you would be full of cum, too. When you are really wet, you should wipe your jizz off I think, just to make not everything dirty. I donīt like to shower or pee after my night wank because Iīm always feeling relaxed and sleepy afterwards, and getting up again would wake me up. :D

Well, I thought the same, I take a shower in the morning and change my underwear and sheets, but I wondered if other boys were afraid of ''spreading'' by accident their semen/precum, if you know, they scratch themselves down there and perhaps touch their phones, or laptops, or something. Am I too paranoid?

spain2000
June 5th, 2015, 05:01 AM
Well , to be honest that isn't really hygienic . I would take shower in such case . And try to pee after you cum , because you clean your urethra on that way from leftover semen . :D

Well, I am not keen on taking a shower at 1 or 2 am.

Bluebyrd
June 5th, 2015, 07:16 AM
Well, I thought the same, I take a shower in the morning and change my underwear and sheets, but I wondered if other boys were afraid of ''spreading'' by accident their semen/precum, if you know, they scratch themselves down there and perhaps touch their phones, or laptops, or something. Am I too paranoid?

I just make sure it is all out and then sleep (after masturbating) but even if I do touch something with cum on me it doesn't really bother me.

lucaboy
June 5th, 2015, 08:41 AM
After all it is cum, not poison. And once it dried it wonīt stain anything anyway ;)

spain2000
June 5th, 2015, 09:17 AM
After all it is cum, not poison. And once it dried it wonīt stain anything anyway ;)

Well, it stains the sheets and the underwear, Luca...But you mentioned that you use your underwear to wipe the cum from yourself, do you cum on your chest/stomach? From your post I understand that you also just wipe your hands from the cum and this is all?

lucaboy
June 5th, 2015, 09:37 AM
Well, it stains the sheets and the underwear, Luca...But you mentioned that you use your underwear to wipe the cum from yourself, do you cum on your chest/stomach? From your post I understand that you also just wipe your hands from the cum and this is all?


Exactly. I love to shoot on my stomach and chest, rather than wrapping a kleenex around my dick before I cum. I wipe it off with Kleenex or my worn undies then, including my hands, since I sleep naked anyway. Sometimes I also lick it off with my fingers then. Thatīs all, of course, if a little bit dribbles on my bedding, who cares? Mostly my bed sheets arenīt stained very much, at least as long as I
wonīt miss my own body when I spurt. (I think cum is awesome, not yukky) :D

spain2000
June 5th, 2015, 12:43 PM
Exactly. I love to shoot on my stomach and chest, rather than wrapping a kleenex around my dick before I cum. I wipe it off with Kleenex or my worn undies then, including my hands, since I sleep naked anyway. Sometimes I also lick it off with my fingers then. Thatīs all, of course, if a little bit dribbles on my bedding, who cares? Mostly my bed sheets arenīt stained very much, at least as long as I
wonīt miss my own body when I spurt. (I think cum is awesome, not yukky) :D

Yeah, I also want to sleep naked, but even if I wipe, I tend to drip some more semen that has stayed in the urethra. So you say there is no problem if I sleep like this, even though there are some small stains on the bed sheets? They can get washed in the morning I guess. Is my fear of ''spreading '' it around irrational?

Lodan
June 5th, 2015, 07:20 PM
I'd be changing myself all the time if that were the case. I get a lot of precum, so I only change my underwear when I normally would (daily usually). As long as you change and wash regularly I don't think it matters unless you think it does

If I cum before I sleep then I mostly just leave it because I know I'll be showering as soon as I wake up

Seahawks15
June 5th, 2015, 09:37 PM
If you are worried about it,just wipe your hands off with Kleenex and wipe off your cum.Squeeze your dick from the base to the head to get the last of the cum out,that's what I do.You're not going to infect anybody with a disease from cum unless you have a sexually transmitted disease and even then the virus doesn't live very long exposed to air.Small stains most likely won't be noticed so you're fine. You have nothing to worry about because you can't spread any disease with your cum unless it's a STD like I said before.

spain2000
June 6th, 2015, 03:57 AM
I'd be changing myself all the time if that were the case. I get a lot of precum, so I only change my underwear when I normally would (daily usually). As long as you change and wash regularly I don't think it matters unless you think it does

If I cum before I sleep then I mostly just leave it because I know I'll be showering as soon as I wake up

So, you suggest to just go to bed with the same underwear I wore the entire day and then just change it in the morning? Even if there are some precum/cum stains it it?

spain2000
June 6th, 2015, 03:59 AM
If you are worried about it,just wipe your hands off with Kleenex and wipe off your cum.Squeeze your dick from the base to the head to get the last of the cum out,that's what I do.You're not going to infect anybody with a disease from cum unless you have a sexually transmitted disease and even then the virus doesn't live very long exposed to air.Small stains most likely won't be noticed so you're fine. You have nothing to worry about because you can't spread any disease with your cum unless it's a STD like I said before.

No, I am not worried about STD, and I do all these things you mentioned. So it is ok to go to bed with some small precum/semen stains in my underwear? And then just take a shower in the morning?

Seahawks15
June 6th, 2015, 02:05 PM
Yes,that's definitely okay.Underwear can be washed. spain2000

Yolo98
June 6th, 2015, 06:35 PM
It's fine but unhygienic and it must smell. If I was you would cleanup

Hermes
June 6th, 2015, 10:03 PM
...I think cum is awesome, not yukky :D

I think this is the key. I'm with lucaboy on this one but even if you don't get to the point of thinking cum is awesome you definitely need to get past the point of thinking it is yucky. Sure most guys prefer not to go to bed covered in it and therfore wipe up but that's about all. That's certainly all I do. At night especially, when I have that nice relaxed glow after cumming which is perfect for drifting off to sleep I want to do the minimum and just drift off to sleep.

Don't worry too much about marks on things - it does wash out of most things.

spain2000
June 6th, 2015, 11:39 PM
Chickenlover13 and Hermes: so the scenario of me scratching down there and touching things after with my hands and spreading semen in this way, is absurd? And wiping it is going to remove it from my chest and penis, but maybe there will be still some small traces, invisible to the eye. Should i wash my sheets then, the next day or just my underwear?

Seahawks15
June 7th, 2015, 12:27 AM
No it's not absurd.Just wash your underwear the next day and put on a new pair

spain2000
June 7th, 2015, 12:55 AM
No it's not absurd.Just wash your underwear the next day and put on a new pair

But only this? Not to wipe door handles and phones and everything in my room?

Dalton.1234
June 7th, 2015, 01:05 AM
I just wait until the morning and wash the underwear and take a shower.

Seahawks15
June 7th, 2015, 01:27 AM
It's fine,I don't.It won't hurt anything except fabric if you get cum on it,unless it's a lot I wouldn't wipe it.

spain2000
June 7th, 2015, 01:33 AM
It's fine,I don't.It won't hurt anything except fabric if you get cum on it,unless it's a lot I wouldn't wipe it.

Thank you, you probably think I am an idiot, I am sorry to bother you :(

Jaffe
June 7th, 2015, 01:34 AM
It's just cum. Semen is sterile - meaning its has not bacteria or virus in it - so it's not going to hurt anything. And it washes out in the laundry. I'm not sure I understand what the issue would be. But if you are OCD about it, keep some wet-wipes nearby to clean up with.

spain2000
June 7th, 2015, 01:53 AM
It's just cum. Semen is sterile - meaning its has not bacteria or virus in it - so it's not going to hurt anything. And it washes out in the laundry. I'm not sure I understand what the issue would be. But if you are OCD about it, keep some wet-wipes nearby to clean up with.

The issue is simply about me, worrying that I may scratch my penis in my sleep , get some semen on my hands and by accident to touch my phone or laptop or clean clothes and to spread the semen around, which I find disgusting. In the morning I would not know what is clean and what is not, cause it will be invisible, you know, it is a small amount. This is all, I am just scared and grossed.

Seahawks15
June 7th, 2015, 02:04 AM
Thank you, you probably think I am an idiot, I am sorry to bother you :(

It's okay,you had a valid question and I answered it,hope I was clear.You didn't bother me. :)

Jaffe
June 7th, 2015, 02:04 AM
The issue is simply about me, worrying that I may scratch my penis in my sleep , get some semen on my hands and by accident to touch my phone or laptop or clean clothes and to spread the semen around, which I find disgusting. In the morning I would not know what is clean and what is not, cause it will be invisible, you know, it is a small amount. This is all, I am just scared and grossed.

Just keep some wipes by your bed. Like cottonelles, or something. Wet ones. Clean up, keep your underwear on (and put it in the laundry in the morning).

Seahawks15
June 7th, 2015, 02:19 AM
Just keep some wipes by your bed. Like cottonelles, or something. Wet ones. Clean up, keep your underwear on (and put it in the laundry in the morning).

Just do this and you'll be fine,you won't spread cum around.

spain2000
June 7th, 2015, 02:50 AM
Ok, guys, I will follow your advice :) Thanks a lot!

lucaboy
June 7th, 2015, 06:22 AM
Yeah, I also want to sleep naked, but even if I wipe, I tend to drip some more semen that has stayed in the urethra. So you say there is no problem if I sleep like this, even though there are some small stains on the bed sheets? They can get washed in the morning I guess. Is my fear of ''spreading '' it around irrational?


Dunno where you wanna "spread" it? You are in bed when it's fluid, so it will all stay there and nowhere else :D

Hermes
June 7th, 2015, 06:41 AM
Chickenlover13 and Hermes: so the scenario of me scratching down there and touching things after with my hands ans spreading semen in this way, is absurd? And wiping it is going to remove it from my chest and penis, but maybe there will be still some small traces, invisible to the eye. Should i wash my sheets then, the next day or just my underwear?

No, wiping your hands and chest won't remove every last trace of semen but the point I was making is that you don't have to remove every last trace. All you are trying to do when wiping up if you have masturbated last thing at night is to avoid feeling wet and avoid making really obvious stains.

Stop worrying about whether you transfer small traces of semen to door handles and other objects. It doesn't matter if you do. This isn't nuclear waste we're talking about, it's just a creamy liquid with your sperm in and, unless you have an STI, it won't be carrying any disease. Think about it - when a guy has unprotected sex for a girl he squirts his semen up inside her vagina and she doesn't then spend a long time washing it out. For couple's trying for a baby, if she did that there would never be a baby. Some people giving blow jobs allow the guy to shoot in the mouth. Some swallow it.

There are far less healthy things to be found on the objects around us than traces of semen and those generally don't cause us any great problem.

If you want to focus on some cleanliness rules for staying healthy then stick to these:

1. Wash hands after defacating.
2. Wash hands before eating food with your fingers.
3. Wash hands after handling raw meat or fish.
3. Wash hands before preparing food which will not be cooked before being eaten (for example salad).

Just about everything else we do, for example showering to avoid body odour, is more about being pleasant and civilised than health.

spain2000
June 7th, 2015, 07:37 AM
Dunno where you wanna "spread" it? You are in bed when it's fluid, so it will all stay there and nowhere else :D

Ah, my crazy scenario is that we, as boys, tend to scratch our junk in our sleep, and so if I have some semen down there, I am gonna get it on my hands, then maybe I will feel thirsty and I will get up and not wash my hands(just still feeling sleepy) and spread the semen around(door handles, light switches, glass to drink the water from). Or i will check my laptop or phone, and in the morning i would have forgotten about all this and touch those things that already have semen on them and spread it around. This is my ''fear''. I don't think that anyone else elaborates so much, though.

spain2000
June 7th, 2015, 07:38 AM
No, wiping your hands and chest won't remove every last trace of semen but the point I was making is that you don't have to remove every last trace. All you are trying to do when wiping up if you have masturbated last thing at night is to avoid feeling wet and avoid making really obvious stains.

Stop worrying about whether you transfer small traces of semen to door handles and other objects. It doesn't matter if you do. This isn't nuclear waste we're talking about, it's just a creamy liquid with your sperm in and, unless you have an STI, it won't be carrying any disease. Think about it - when a guy has unprotected sex for a girl he squirts his semen up inside her vagina and she doesn't then spend a long time washing it out. For couple's trying for a baby, if she did that there would never be a baby. Some people giving blow jobs allow the guy to shoot in the mouth. Some swallow it.

There are far less healthy things to be found on the objects around us than traces of semen and those generally don't cause us any great problem.

If you want to focus on some cleanliness rules for staying healthy then stick to these:

1. Wash hands after defacating.
2. Wash hands before eating food with your fingers.
3. Wash hands after handling raw meat or fish.
3. Wash hands before preparing food which will not be cooked before being eaten (for example salad).

Just about everything else we do, for example showering to avoid body odour, is more about being pleasant and civilised than health.

Thank you, very much Hermes :)

lucaboy
June 8th, 2015, 04:04 AM
Ah, my crazy scenario is that we, as boys, tend to scratch our junk in our sleep, and so if I have some semen down there, I am gonna get it on my hands, then maybe I will feel thirsty and I will get up and not wash my hands(just still feeling sleepy) and spread the semen around(door handles, light switches, glass to drink the water from). Or i will check my laptop or phone, and in the morning i would have forgotten about all this and touch those things that already have semen on them and spread it around. This is my ''fear''. I don't think that anyone else elaborates so much, though.

I canīt see your problem. When you scratch or touch yourself while you are asleep, your cum is already dried and you canīt spread it out anywhere? Why are you panicking about spreading invisible amounts of cum, anyhow?

spain2000
June 8th, 2015, 05:28 AM
I canīt see your problem. When you scratch or touch yourself while you are asleep, your cum is already dried and you canīt spread it out anywhere? Why are you panicking about spreading invisible amounts of cum, anyhow?

But what if it is not dry, Luca? What if there is still a wet spot from cum/precum in my underwear? You say you make a lot of precum, as well, and I guess you sleep with it, in your underwear? Well, so do I, but I precum during the night, as well, so sometimes I am not fully dry there.
As far as why I am worried about spreading invisible amounts of cum, around...hm...I guess, it is my household, my mom cleans a lot, and somehow I got the idea that ''good boys'' don't leave a mess after themselves. I have the image that my mom or relatives are gonna touch something with my semen on it, then touch their belongings or something in the house and it is going to spread everywhere(and nothing is ever going to be clean again). I just imagine all those cells crawling around, you know, the way we have seem them under a microscope. I don't know how to explain it in a better way.

lucaboy
June 8th, 2015, 07:01 AM
But what if it is not dry, Luca? What if there is still a wet spot from cum/precum in my underwear? You say you make a lot of precum, as well, and I guess you sleep with it, in your underwear? Well, so do I, but I precum during the night, as well, so sometimes I am not fully dry there.
As far as why I am worried about spreading invisible amounts of cum, around...hm...I guess, it is my household, my mom cleans a lot, and somehow I got the idea that ''good boys'' don't leave a mess after themselves. I have the image that my mom or relatives are gonna touch something with my semen on it, then touch their belongings or something in the house and it is going to spread everywhere(and nothing is ever going to be clean again). I just imagine all those cells crawling around, you know, the way we have seem them under a microscope. I don't know how to explain it in a better way.

Those semen cells canīt survive and all die within minutes when left on the air after you cumed. Nothing is "crawling" then anymore. Itīs not much different from not washing your hands after you had a pee :D If you still worry about "spreading" anything, take wet and dry wipes as mentioned above and clean yourself properly, including your hands. You can even leave a dry wipe between your dick and your underwear, just in case you dribble. I still cant see any problem with it, though. Every teenboy masturbates, cums or has wet dreams.
Itīs completely normal. And a few cum stains are normal, as well. My cousins and friends all have stains from precum or cum in their undies or pajama bottoms ;)

spain2000
June 8th, 2015, 07:33 AM
Those semen cells canīt survive and all die within minutes when left on the air after you cumed. Nothing is "crawling" then anymore. Itīs not much different from not washing your hands after you had a pee :D If you still worry about "spreading" anything, take wet and dry wipes as mentioned above and clean yourself properly, including your hands. You can even leave a dry wipe between your dick and your underwear, just in case you dribble. I still cant see any problem with it, though. Every teenboy masturbates, cums or has wet dreams.
Itīs completely normal. And a few cum stains are normal, as well. My cousins and friends all have stains from precum or cum in their undies or pajama bottoms ;)

Oh my, how do you know they do?

lucaboy
June 8th, 2015, 07:52 AM
Oh my, how do you know they do?

When you are on a sleepover or just visiting a friend and you find his undies or pajamy bottoms laying around or on the laundry, just check them out. I must confess, Iīm very curious, especially in these things :D hehe
Even easier: I can see it when wanking together with my buddies. While Iīm pulling their undies down I can peer at them. :)
I can tell you: Most boys have bigger or smaller (pre)cum stains in their briefs, boxers, gym shorts and pj bottoms :D

spain2000
June 8th, 2015, 10:04 PM
When you are on a sleepover or just visiting a friend and you find his undies or pajamy bottoms laying around or on the laundry, just check them out. I must confess, Iīm very curious, especially in these things :D hehe
Even easier: I can see it when wanking together with my buddies. While Iīm pulling their undies down I can peer at them. :)
I can tell you: Most boys have bigger or smaller (pre)cum stains in their briefs, boxers, gym shorts and pj bottoms :D

Wow, I have never been to sleepovers or wanking with my friends, much less thought about examining their undies.