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mrjc
June 4th, 2015, 08:09 AM
Hi I have feelings for both genders, I find both sexy so am I BI or is it just a teen thing? :what:



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vipersniper70
June 4th, 2015, 08:15 AM
it sounds u are bi but it depends what the feelings are

Zachary G
June 4th, 2015, 08:39 AM
generically it sounds as if you could be bi, but to what extent do you have feelings for each?

Airrd
June 4th, 2015, 08:56 AM
It sounds like you would be bi but it depends on the levels of attraction

mrjc
June 4th, 2015, 09:01 AM
I find both attractive but its not always easy to show this.

Uranus
June 4th, 2015, 09:24 AM
You sound like you're bisexual. For the moment, you probably are but it could change in the future.

Airrd
June 4th, 2015, 09:28 AM
You probably won't know for sure what you like until you find out what you don't like lol. It's a learning process.

ComfortableInChaos
June 4th, 2015, 10:49 AM
Well, you're either bi or bi curious. If I were you, try dating a guy and a girl or have a sexual relationship with both (if you're comfortable with it, whatever you do, just make sure you're both comfortable doing whatever you do) and see which one you like more, if you don't like one, or if you like both.

Dreamer98
June 4th, 2015, 12:00 PM
I would say that it's more teen thing ... Time will show what's right ... :D

Emerald Dream
June 4th, 2015, 12:36 PM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

This is probably better suited here :)

mrjc
June 4th, 2015, 02:34 PM
Thanks guys

PsychoticReality
June 4th, 2015, 07:04 PM
You could be bisexual or it could simply be teen hormones, see how it goes. If you are comfortable in doing so, experience yourself with boys and girls but do not, I repeat, do not do anything you are not comfortable with merely because someone else has asked you to.

If you are attracted to both, you are probably bisexual but with some people these feelings sometimes do fade. Not in most, but for a few people. Experimenting is just a phase of growing up I believe. I myself used to be confused, but I currently identify as Bisexual. It's never equal attraction for me, but for others it may be.

Microcosm
June 4th, 2015, 10:23 PM
It is entirely possible that you are just going through a phase. I went through a phase in which I thought I was bi too.

Before you come out calling yourself bi to everyone, I'd wait a few years before you do just to make sure you're serious and not just going through a phase.

Straya
June 5th, 2015, 05:25 AM
Hi I have feelings for both genders, I find both sexy so am I BI or is it just a teen thing? :what:



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sounds like you might be bi but could also be hormones

mrjc
June 9th, 2015, 06:25 AM
I agree, might find out as I get older

Straya
June 9th, 2015, 08:12 AM
definatly as you get older you might find you like one more than the other or it could just end up staying the same puberty is tricky like that

jacshamy
June 19th, 2015, 09:47 PM
Hi I have feelings for both genders, I find both sexy so am I BI or is it just a teen thing? :what:



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Sounds like you're a horny teenager haha :D:D:D Maybe you're bi, or maybe you're gay. I'm gay and I like girls too, but I'm not sexually interested in them. I used to think I was but now I know I'm not. You also have a million gallons of hormones in your system too. You'll figure it out. :)

DoodleSnap
June 21st, 2015, 02:28 PM
Sexuality is a very confusing thing for everyone, never mind young people going through puberty: a confusing time as it is.
It is likely that most people will sit somewhere on the spectrum of sexuality, in between "straight" and "gay", however many choose to identify with one or the other because of personal preference.
For you, it really depends on what you want to identify with. As one grows older, their perception of their sexuality will change hugely, so don't feel the need to label yourself immediately. Just give it a bit of time before rushing to any conclusions, and see where life takes you. Feel comfortable being attracted to whoever you are attracted to, and simply enjoy exploring what you enjoy. That is more important than rushing to find a label for your sexuality. If you want to identify as bi, that is fine, just enjoy growing up and seeing where life takes you.