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smff
June 3rd, 2015, 05:11 PM
So me and my best girl friend haven't been talking much lately. It's been about three weeks since we've actually had a full conversation and I feel really bad that I don't talk to her anymore.

I think it's because recently I've really started to get feelings for her and I've started to feel increasingly awkward around her. She knows I like her and is okay with it, and I think she might like me too.

We text each other quite a bit and we have nice little conversations. She's said to one of my friends that she misses talking to me in person, but she makes no effort to talk to me either.

What do I do?

Bmble_B
June 3rd, 2015, 05:16 PM
You should approach her about the fact that you guys don't take as much anymore. So you guys can find a way to start seeing each other more. One of the things I hate to see is a friendship die.

smff
June 3rd, 2015, 07:04 PM
I should add that we go to the same school and we see each other every day, we just don't really talk.

indoxyl
June 3rd, 2015, 11:34 PM
Maybe you should stop waiting for her to talk to you and just talk to her first? If neither of you want to initiate conversation then obviously you aren't going to talk to each other.

Airrd
June 4th, 2015, 12:04 AM
the texting is good because you still have some type of contact but maybe set aside some time to talk like hang out when school is over and talk or go for a walk and talk with them then idk just try to think of something fun that you have in common to start a conversation

Microcosm
June 4th, 2015, 01:07 AM
The only thing you really can do is just talk to her. She's probably thinking the same thing you are thinking right now. Perhaps it is best to simply go up to her and revive that friendship. Who knows, maybe you'll even get to the point where you can date. It all starts by taking that first step of revival though.