I need a answer that I can not think of a title for

[parzzival]

I have a issue where for some reason I subconsciously think that any girl is repulsed by me because I am slightly over weight and sweat garlic if I eat to much of it. I am a guy who is 5 feet 3 inches and weigh 210. A lot of my weight is mussel but I still have a small beer gut. For some reason, I at a young age got it in my mind that because of me being slightly over weight that all girls are disgusted with me and because of that I have literally no experience with girls at all. I guess my question is here, what attitude or manner would I use in flirting/courting with a girl? And a second question, I am not exactly sure how flirting works. I don't know whats considered flirting or just kind personality or if I am flirting. I have been told in the past that I did a few times but I have no idea how.

[Bmble_B]

You should have a confident and positive attitude when trying to seduce a girl, or anybody. But this is only possible once you accept yourself for who you are and accept your appearance. Only then can you emulate this attitude. What's considered flirting can actually vary from person to person, mainly complimenting someone a lot can be a dead giveaway for flirting. And for your overweight thing why not try to work on your body? Try dieting or exercising, if you want to diet I suggest a calorie tracker so you know how many calories you're taking in everyday.

[Microcosm]

I'm far from being an expert on flirting, but I personally just roll with being nice to people. I don't try too hard to get girls, but rather I just be nice and see if any of them show signs of a sort of greater appreciation for my niceness that might result in them liking me.

Of course, this is probably a pretty shitty way of getting girls now that I actually write it out like this... But hey. That's my tactic.

[parzzival]

I'm far from being an expert on flirting, but I personally just roll with being nice to people. I don't try too hard to get girls, but rather I just be nice and see if any of them show signs of a sort of greater appreciation for my niceness that might result in them liking me.

Of course, this is probably a pretty shitty way of getting girls now that I actually write it out like this... But hey. That's my tactic.


I have always done this in the past but as statistics show, it defiantly does not work for me XD. I think i also have a habit of scaring or annoying some girls. In the past i have annoyed them with computer talk or have scared them with talking about the knives that I have made.

[Trickythetiger]

._. UH. e.e I had a friend I liked and usually when flirting with her I would make jokes, or like try to keep a long conversation. I don't really see flirting as trying to capture that girl with your "sexy, smart" choice of words. For me it's just like talking to them and cracking jokes, pretty much creating a bond with that person. :0

Aye. I've got a bit of pudge too. [emoji14] Best case to solve our insecurities is to work out I guess. B)

Don't fret. Just try talking to some girl you like. :3

[Uniquemind]

Flirting is basically a customized combination of these:

1. Reading a persons body language and inferring what their interests are based on their possessions, appearance, and verbal conversation.

2. Being friendly and only teasingly judgmental in a positive way.

3. Selling yourself as confident, attractive, and risk free to spend a little time with so you'll see them again.