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aboy
June 2nd, 2015, 04:42 AM
To start off im a 16 yr old guy whos been crushing pretty hard on a girl i know but cant tell if im friendzoned alot so im gonna just say everything i know to you guys, ive known her since kindergarten, whenever we hang out im the one to be claiming to be friendzoned and she just laughs but doesnt agree, she lives to cuddle with me in public places, hold my hand, kiss my hand but wierdly enough rasberry my lips (friendly kissing), also she likes to mention sexuality to me alot like listening to sexual audiobooks together in public (she insists) also her barely friends have said years ago that she wanted to fuck me but i couldnt tell if they were serious or not, also she makes up weird excuses to let me feel her underwear and stuff, also she wants me to know every detail about her, like her shoe and bra size and favorite animal lol, the problem is everytime i make a move shell usually just laugh it off or be sarcastic and be like "OOOoOH yea take me now" so ill laugh it off and go back to cuddling, she Has asked me to come to her house at midnight before but claims it was just to make sure her house was safe when she got home alone at the end of spring break (in fairness i live 1 street over). Shes only had 1 other serious boyfriend and i get treated the same way, but unfortunately she also treats her good friends the same way as her boufriend. Shes always saying thing like i libe you and when im 30 ill run back to you and well have kids after i realize i loved you all along, with no reason to say it(btw these are out of context so no shes not crazy). If i do end up asking her out i wanna know if its a play date or a real date because shes making it difficult for me honestly since all of her "signals" seem extremely platonic to me at the moment. And lastly today she dropped this on me today and said were practically dating except wed hang out more afterschool, and thats my story, so if you wanna leave a comment saying if you think i have a chance or not let mr know!

matt_tgr
June 2nd, 2015, 08:04 PM
I'd think she wants to be more than just friends dude!

Bmble_B
June 2nd, 2015, 08:12 PM
Yeah man she likes you xD

liptonlee
June 3rd, 2015, 10:33 AM
I think she drops a lot of opportunities for you...and you've gotta pick it up :) Not friendzoned at all.

indoxyl
June 3rd, 2015, 11:36 PM
Personally I think you just need to take her aside and bluntly if she likes you or if she's just playing some unfair game with you.

Microcosm
June 4th, 2015, 01:11 AM
She either likes you or she is like hardcore playing you. The latter would be incredibly rude and unfortunate; however, the former seems to be much more likely. I'd have to agree with the user above me on the point that you'll have to just ask her outright and see if she wants to actually start a relationship.

However, based on what you have said, my short answer would be yes. She most likely likes you and is interested.

Uniquemind
June 4th, 2015, 10:42 PM
No. You are not friendzoned, instead you have a situation where all you have to do is request that you be an exclusive couple.

After which you can challenge her teasing you to actually getting a move on and making love to her, after you verify she says "yes".

You are in that position and I think the realization of that is scary to you.