masturbatuion

[badmanbean]

I recently started dating a "good Christian girl" she is more then willing to get busy in the sheets but she told me if she ever finds out that I masturbate then she will break up with me because she says it like cheating on her. I want to know is this the norm? I have a foot fetish and she is very accommodating to this even enthusiastic but masturbation is when we cannot meet up. I am very perplexed by this.

[areeb69]

I think masturbation is perfectly fine and your girlfriend should be fine with it too. Indent understand why she thinks masturbating is cheating, 'cuz it's just like having sex just by yourself. I think she should be fine with it. If u like her that much then either masturbate in secret or stop masturbating!

[Vermilion]

I recently started dating a "good Christian girl" she is more then willing to get busy in the sheets but she told me if she ever finds out that I masturbate then she will break up with me because she says it like cheating on her. I want to know is this the norm? I have a foot fetish and she is very accommodating to this even enthusiastic but masturbation is when we cannot meet up. I am very perplexed by this.

Not to be rude if she's happy to jump in bed with you I don't see why she would have a problem with you jo.

[James Dean]

Some religions, you aren't allowed to masturbate or have sex before marriage. So maybe that's why she is acting like that. I don't know, I mean you can talk to her about it, but her beliefs are her beliefs.

[countryboi9]

she cant be that true of a Christian if she is willing to get into bed with u before u r married, most Christian wouldn't do that, as for masturbation that's a whole different story

[Straya]

id dump her the second she tried to enforce that on me

[Airrd]

it seems a little unfair that they would try to control you like that but then again in relationships there is a lot of give and take so you can continue, stop, or talk about it and help them to understand

[Zachary G]

the whole thing is a very confusing situation, she is willing to have sex with you, indulges your foot fetish, but will not allow you to masturbate? Before committing to that I would have to have a very deep discussion with her as to the whys of her request -- and it be cheating on her wouldnt be the answer I would accept.

[oneill662]

It's not like she would be able to telling u did do it, so I'd just keep doing it just don't get caught

[SethfromMI]

the whole thing is a very confusing situation, she is willing to have sex with you, indulges your foot fetish, but will not allow you to masturbate? Before committing to that I would have to have a very deep discussion with her as to the whys of her request -- and it be cheating on her wouldnt be the answer I would accept.

she is being completely unrealistic

[Jaffe]

Seems a bit hypocritical, I'd definitely want to question her ideas. But then, I suck at relationships, so....

[WintersuN]

Looking at it from her perspective, honestly, I think it's fair enough even if a little unorthodox. Then again, she sounds pretty unorthodox herself! Personally when I'm in that sort of situation I don't feel the need to masturbate, I would recommend learning to do the same. It leads to greater appreciation of your girlfriend and will make the sex that little bit more wild!

[panos113]

Why masturbate, if she wants to have sex with you ?

[Jeff1857]

Masturbation is not cheating and that is a weird demand. I guess just do not tell her.

[pjones]

Not to be rude if she's happy to jump in bed with you I don't see why she would have a problem with you jo.

i agree with this, doesn't make sense.

[ska8er]

Shes a hypocrite and demanding. Shes trying
to control u with her favors and she will break
u if u let her. How would she know u masturbate
if u don't tell her unless she looks for stretch marks.

[Living For Love]

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