View Full Version : Is this wrong?
KingExplosionMurder
June 1st, 2015, 10:23 PM
I have a question? Is it wrong to ask someone straight if he'd like to masturbate with you? I was just wondering because I keep getting a feeling of doing something with someone.. :/
Hideous
June 1st, 2015, 10:34 PM
As long as they're okay with it. Nothing wrong with asking, but be careful. Their response might not be what you'd expect.
Thomas01
June 1st, 2015, 10:51 PM
Yeah nothing is wrong about asking. I mean society makes it so asking is unusual, but there's nothing wrong with
I would advise asking indirectly as it is easier to play off a negative response that way
Depending on whom you ask, he/she might be uncomfortable with doing it
xXCaptainteemoXx
June 1st, 2015, 10:53 PM
There's nothing wrong with asking. Just don't try to guilt them into doing it. If they're ok with it, then you're lucky lol.
NZPerson
June 2nd, 2015, 03:16 AM
Hmm maybe just hint is and not be to direct at first to see their initial. Reaction so you dont ruin your friend ship orscare them or whateve.
colesixteen
June 2nd, 2015, 06:56 AM
I am gay and I often masturbate with straight friends, so I think there is nothing wrong with it. I would advise you though to be careful about approaching the right guy. Try to find a guy who maybe has given you signals that he might be into that kind of thing.
the darkness
June 2nd, 2015, 08:59 AM
I've wanked with other straight guys so go for it..subtly!
tret123
June 2nd, 2015, 09:02 AM
I jacked off with of friend of mine and he and I are straight.... Well i'll never date a guy, fuck one in THE ass ... I'm attracted to girls
Bluebyrd
June 2nd, 2015, 10:39 AM
There's nothing wrong with it but straight up saying it to him might freak him out a little if he doesn't want to do it. I would advise you to ask him implicitly and if he is comfortable with it, he might ask you...
Zachary G
June 2nd, 2015, 11:34 AM
the dumbest question you ever ask is the one you dont. worst case scenario is he says no. youre normal in your curiosity.
Tendencies
June 2nd, 2015, 11:36 AM
Yeah, as other people have said in here, nothing will come out of not asking, but asking could open a whole new, I guess you could say "chapter", of a relationship and could even make the friendship a whole lot greater. My only advice on that, though, would be not to push it on anyone or pressure anyone in to it because that could lead to issues and nobody would want that.
Jdog5513
June 2nd, 2015, 02:42 PM
No it's not wrong, it might be awkward and he might not want to do it or he might be cool with it. You better off to ease into in than to straight ask lol
gui0506
June 2nd, 2015, 02:44 PM
It doesn't hurt to ask. He might accept but he might refuse, keep it in mind
Canadian Dream
June 2nd, 2015, 05:46 PM
I don't think it's wrong to ask, I know a lot of straight guys like me that are curious with other guys.
Semi_IronMan
June 3rd, 2015, 02:14 PM
I don't think it is, but I'd be really creeped out if someone where to ask me that
Airrd
June 3rd, 2015, 02:16 PM
I'm sure that that would be ok if you asked but it also depends on how close you are to them
Straya
June 4th, 2015, 12:54 AM
I have a question? Is it wrong to ask someone straight if he'd like to masturbate with you? I was just wondering because I keep getting a feeling of doing something with someone.. :/
theres nothing wrong with it but you might not get a yes from them
BoyOBoy
July 10th, 2017, 05:59 AM
Just ask him it was so good when i did it
SamMystic
July 10th, 2017, 06:04 AM
It might be kinda strange yes
Andres_s
July 10th, 2017, 12:03 PM
it depends on how close you guys are. if you guys are close, then you should feel comfortable enough to ask him that
Jamiec1130
July 10th, 2017, 08:15 PM
It really depends on the person. If you have a really close friendship, you could try asking, but I'd seriously think about it first.
Bailey56
July 10th, 2017, 09:09 PM
I don't think it's wrong unless you know for a fact they wouldn't be into it
LRSSS02
July 10th, 2017, 09:29 PM
no, it isn't wrong it's completely normal
Impressionist1910
July 10th, 2017, 11:35 PM
I have a question? Is it wrong to ask someone straight if he'd like to masturbate with you? I was just wondering because I keep getting a feeling of doing something with someone.. :/
God no!
Go for it.
If you have a friend that you feel confident that would do it with you then go ahead! I just haven't had friends yet that I could approach about that. I wish I did, but it just wasn't in the cards. It's all part of the experimentation process. The only variable is that it could permanently change your friendship. Even if he says yes enthusiastically and you both j/o together you've now been intimate with each other and done sexual things together. You just have to keep in mind that those things aren't forgotten. It could be an awesome experience, but if it's not I'd hate to see you lose a friend.
So if you feel confident and are sure about all repercussions, go for it!
Chris298
July 10th, 2017, 11:46 PM
I dont see anything at all wrong with it, as long as you don't try to force them if they are uncomfortable with the idea. I am a straight guy but would be open to that from most of my friends if they asked. You could also try being a little more discreet, maybe ask to watch some porn and see where it leads or something.
Living For Love
July 11th, 2017, 05:41 AM
Please don't bump old threads. :locked:
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