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Unknown12345
May 31st, 2015, 07:09 PM
So this guy and I dated a while back and I took a break from him. Then yesterday I asked him out. He said not right now. I don't know what he means and I know he isn't dating anyone. Should I wait for him?
Bull
May 31st, 2015, 07:12 PM
I think he is taking a break from you. Move on.
Unknown12345
May 31st, 2015, 07:39 PM
I think he is taking a break from you. Move on.

I don't know if I should because he texts me 24/7
Bull
May 31st, 2015, 07:47 PM
okay. Then: "if not now, when?"
Unknown12345
May 31st, 2015, 07:48 PM
okay. Then: "if not now, when?"

Wait: should I say that to him?
Bull
May 31st, 2015, 07:50 PM
yes, he said not now, so when is your proper response
Unknown12345
May 31st, 2015, 07:54 PM
yes, he said not now, so when is your proper response
I just asked him
Bull
May 31st, 2015, 08:27 PM
good for you. his response?
Unknown12345
May 31st, 2015, 08:56 PM
good for you. his response?

Hasn't answered yet
Unknown12345
June 1st, 2015, 05:29 PM
good for you. his response?

He said he was busy this summer
Bull
June 1st, 2015, 05:31 PM
He said he was busy this summer

I think it is time for you to move on. Sorry that he seems to be leading you on. Good luck, have some summer fun! :metal:
ClaraWho
June 1st, 2015, 07:55 PM
My guess is he just wants to see if sexual flings come along this summer, or if he meets another girl. I'd say respect yourself enough to forget him and not be his 'backup plan'.

Sorry Hun,

~ Clara
Microcosm
June 4th, 2015, 01:29 AM
Unfortunately, I'm going to have to agree with the above posters. It is very likely that he is either leading you on or just playing around with you. It doesn't seem like he wants anything serious.
Uniquemind
June 6th, 2015, 12:52 PM
I third Clara's post.


But I will at least say the guy is being honest to you.

I'm not sure I agree with the concept of "backup plan" comparison though.

The whole point of dating IS shopping around for variety.

If you going to blame a guy or girl for doing then when they are being honest and NOT cheating their partners, then I don't know what society can fairly attribute what is and isn't fair to do within the context of social-romantic relationships.