I'm un-straight lol

[paletanner]

so this is sort of like coming out. i know i like girls but i know i also like guys. i have no game tho so nothing will ever happen. but i had to put this out there.

[jacshamy]

so this is sort of like coming out. i know i like girls but i know i also like guys. i have no game tho so nothing will ever happen. but i had to put this out there.

I'm here, Tanner. Love you, lil bro! :metal:

[Bmble_B]

Congratulations man! The more you do it the easier it gets to come out to other people if you haven't already. It has been getting easier for me :D

[Vermilion]

so this is sort of like coming out. i know i like girls but i know i also like guys. i have no game tho so nothing will ever happen. but i had to put this out there.

Well done Tanner :) i know the weight lifted when you tell people, but remember you don't need to tell everyone.

I'm here, Tanner. Love you, lil bro! :metal:

Your a sweet guy Jacob and a loving brother :D


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[Bluebyrd]

Well done! Like twin said, only tell people who you feel comfortable telling :)

[NZPerson]

Ive known ive been bi for a year and havnt come out to my friend sand i dont think i will but your very brave and i envy you.

[Cloud_Strife]

so this is sort of like coming out. i know i like girls but i know i also like guys. i have no game tho so nothing will ever happen. but i had to put this out there.

The important thing is for you to be comfortable with yourself mate. Good for you, that you are able to take this step in letting us know. Reading some of your other posts though, it seems like things are still fluid and prone to changing. So take your time and don't be so stuck with the idea of adapting a label, or conforming to a category that society would have you be in. You are you, and you are only in your early teens. So don't feel the pressure or rush. Things will become clearer with time.

Take care Tanner and all the best!

[Vermilion]

Ive known ive been bi for a year and havnt come out to my friend sand i dont think i will but your very brave and i envy you.

I know it's not easy but why wouldn't you tell friends ? I'm only put to 3 friend's and my twin. And it will stay that way till I'm happy to tell other's.

[KeeganW]

Ahhh, now I get what Jacob meant when he told me he was online being supportive of you. I will tell you the same thing me and my bro have told a couple of friends we know who have been brave and said something like you have,,,,,, "it doesn't matter who you like, it only matters who you are". Your friend, Keegan

[Bull]

The important thing is for you to be comfortable with yourself mate. Good for you, that you are able to take this step in letting us know. Reading some of your other posts though, it seems like things are still fluid and prone to changing. So take your time and don't be so stuck with the idea of adapting a label, or conforming to a category that society would have you be in. You are you, and you are only in your early teens. So don't feel the pressure or rush. Things will become clearer with time.

Take care Tanner and all the best!

Well said! Very important that you be comfortable with yourself. The only label I am comfortable with is "sexual". Don't be in a hurry to accept a label, things can change over time. Good luck in life.

[Jaffe]

Good job saying it, Tanner. It doesn't make any sense to me that we even have to "come out". But I guess we do, its good you are brave enough to do it. This is a good place to start.

[paletanner]

I'm here, Tanner. Love you, lil bro! :metal:

love you too, big bro!!!!!!! :yeah::yeah::yeah::yeah::yeah:

[paletanner]

Good job saying it, Tanner. It doesn't make any sense to me that we even have to "come out". But I guess we do, its good you are brave enough to do it. This is a good place to start.

Well said! Very important that you be comfortable with yourself. The only label I am comfortable with is "sexual". Don't be in a hurry to accept a label, things can change over time. Good luck in life.

Ahhh, now I get what Jacob meant when he told me he was online being supportive of you. I will tell you the same thing me and my bro have told a couple of friends we know who have been brave and said something like you have,,,,,, "it doesn't matter who you like, it only matters who you are". Your friend, Keegan

I know it's not easy but why wouldn't you tell friends ? I'm only put to 3 friend's and my twin. And it will stay that way till I'm happy to tell other's.

The important thing is for you to be comfortable with yourself mate. Good for you, that you are able to take this step in letting us know. Reading some of your other posts though, it seems like things are still fluid and prone to changing. So take your time and don't be so stuck with the idea of adapting a label, or conforming to a category that society would have you be in. You are you, and you are only in your early teens. So don't feel the pressure or rush. Things will become clearer with time.

Take care Tanner and all the best!

Ive known ive been bi for a year and havnt come out to my friend sand i dont think i will but your very brave and i envy you.

Well done! Like twin said, only tell people who you feel comfortable telling :)

Well done Tanner :) i know the weight lifted when you tell people, but remember you don't need to tell everyone.



Your a sweet guy Jacob and a loving brother :D


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Congratulations man! The more you do it the easier it gets to come out to other people if you haven't already. It has been getting easier for me :D

you guys are all the awesomemest!!! love ya all!!!!! :yeah::metal::P;):D:wub:

[Jaffe]

i have no game tho so nothing will ever happen.

Hey Tanner
You think that now. But things will happen. I thought the exact same way a year ago. I think, though, that figuring out who you are and being comfortable with it is a big step to making things happen. But just let it go, it'll happen.

Been thinking quite a bit about you, how hard this must be for you. I can't even pretend to understand it. I'm the only un-straight person in my family, but I was not even into puberty yet when my parents made it clear that whoever or whatever I was, it was ok. So I don't really understand the "coming out" thing, and I really can't figure out why society demands it of us. But I can see you struggle with it. And hey, your bro understands and is there.

Stay strong, bud. It will all work out. You'll be stronger - and a lot happier - for knowing who you are and being that person that you really are.

[paletanner]

Hey Tanner
You think that now. But things will happen. I thought the exact same way a year ago. I think, though, that figuring out who you are and being comfortable with it is a big step to making things happen. But just let it go, it'll happen.

tbh yeah i know. but i'm soooo clueless right now!!! i want to do everything but i don't know what to do. ugh. like my dad says, shoot the alligators one at a time until you get them all.

[SethfromMI]

well good for you on being true to yourself man

[ashdaniel]

It doesn't matter how othere feel. The important part is how you feel. Life is too short to care about other's feeling. I am glad you say it out. It is normal nowadays, people come out as gay, bi and etc... Anything that make you feel comfortable count.

[paletanner]

It doesn't matter how othere feel. The important part is how you feel. Life is too short to care about other's feeling. I am glad you say it out. It is normal nowadays, people come out as gay, bi and etc... Anything that make you feel comfortable count.

thanks i really appreciate that. :)

[mcloete]

Great bro, for having the bravery

[paletanner]

Great bro, for having the bravery

thanks man :)

[Snydergate]

Nice bro, congrats

[paletanner]

Nice bro, congrats

thanks! :)

[ImCoolBeans]

so this is sort of like coming out. i know i like girls but i know i also like guys. i have no game tho so nothing will ever happen. but i had to put this out there.

I had no game when I was 14 either :P
Things will come together in time

That's good that you're accepting this within yourself and acknowledging the fact that you're interested in guys too instead of just repressing the feelings.

[paletanner]

I had no game when I was 14 either :P
Things will come together in time

That's good that you're accepting this within yourself and acknowledging the fact that you're interested in guys too instead of just repressing the feelings.

thanks Mike!!! :D

[DoodleSnap]

It's brilliant that you have been honest and open-minded enough to find something like that out about yourself. Congratulations, and I hope all goes well :)

[paletanner]

It's brilliant that you have been honest and open-minded enough to find something like that out about yourself. Congratulations, and I hope all goes well :)

thanks :)