i need help, confused

[myskias]

Hey all, i have seen shows on tv that are like how guys will just randomly go up to a girl and hook up with them. i have wondered how people do this and actually get the complete stranger girl to like them. i want to kno if there is any specific way to do this. because usually my thought of what would happen is that she would just look at you like ur weird and just blow you off. what would you guys do if you saw a hot girl and wanted to go hook up with her?

[Areus]

Well, first of all, you have to realize that that's a TV show, real life doesn't actually work like that. The best way to get somebody to go out with you is to get to know them, and let them get to know you. A relationship with a complete stranger will not be a healthy relationship.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

There are people who will participate in random hook-ups. But you have to consider that most of the time, the girl who will hook up with you will hook up with other guys. It's possible that she may have even picked up diseases from those guys without realizing it. If you meet this girl at a party, it's also possible that she's been drinking a bit, and in the morning she may feel that you took advantage of her. She'll tell her friends, and before you know it it'll be hard to get a real date. No one wants to go out with the guy who manipulates a drunk chick and then never calls her again. Even if it does work smoothly, what if you decide you want a relationship, but she doesn't? Or vice versa? One hook-up has the potential to cause a lot of heartache over one night. Just stick to actual dating, and everyone will be happier in the end.

[dudesweet101]

You'd have to be really good lookin to get to do that in real life.

[myskias]

alright then thanks

[Prince Jellyfish]

You'd have to be really good lookin to get to do that in real life.

That or they have to be really drunk, perhaps even passed out. Actually, go for the ones that don't' look conscious. that's what I do anyway.:cool:

[myskias]

haha okay thanks :]