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marcusdolittle
May 29th, 2015, 05:21 AM
I'm a mostly straight and kinda bicurious guy. In a few weeks, I'll be losing my virginity; to a guy. He's straight with pretty much no curiosity, but that doesn't really matter right now. We're prepared to go all the way if we want to but we have no idea how far we're going to go just yet.

What made your first time special and what would you do different? This will be both of our's first time and I want us both to like it.

Adventure boy
May 29th, 2015, 06:38 AM
Did you ask him to have inter coarse with him ? Are you good friends

Zachary G
May 29th, 2015, 10:01 AM
my first time was with a straight guy (now bi) and what made it so special was being that we had never done anything like it, we were comfortable with each other and had a sense of trust. We took our time, and did our best to make each other feel good.

marcusdolittle
May 29th, 2015, 02:25 PM
Did you ask him to have inter coarse with him ? Are you good friends

We have talked about it and are a little nervous but both willing. We're somewhat close friends, not best friends though.

Adventure boy
May 29th, 2015, 04:04 PM
We have talked about it and are a little nervous but both willing. We're somewhat close friends, not best friends though.

Your lucky I wish I was you but how old a you guys and did you plan were your having it cause you don't want sometime to walk on you like if your in your room someone could walk in and how did you start talking about it ? Were you talking about sex and said to him lets do it ? And what do you mean go the whole way and a you wearing condoms?

marcusdolittle
May 31st, 2015, 11:19 AM
Your lucky I wish I was you but how old a you guys and did you plan were your having it cause you don't want sometime to walk on you like if your in your room someone could walk in and how did you start talking about it ? Were you talking about sex and said to him lets do it ? And what do you mean go the whole way and a you wearing condoms?

We're both in our late teens, it is planned and we know the risk of being caught.
There was this girl asking about our sizes and she brought up us having sex and I'm trying it mainly because I'm curious, him a little bit too but she's annoying and lying to her doesn't work. By going all the way I meant anal. And we might wear condoms, I don't know yet. If we do, I'd have to go buy some, and I have no idea what to get. If anyone has suggestions for what I should get, I'm 8 long and like 5.9-6 around (2 across the top).

PS I hope nothing I've said is against the rules here.

tallboy217
May 31st, 2015, 03:45 PM
condoms are mostly one size fits all

marcusdolittle
May 31st, 2015, 03:47 PM
condoms are mostly one size fits all

Even for my size?

stism
May 31st, 2015, 05:54 PM
If you want to start out with a man, you're not just "bi-curious", you are gay. There's nothing wrong with that, but that's your orientation.

marcusdolittle
May 31st, 2015, 06:21 PM
If you want to start out with a man, you're not just "bi-curious", you are gay. There's nothing wrong with that, but that's your orientation.

It's not really that I want to but the opportunity with a guy came before one with a girl. I don't even know how far we'll go; we may stop at handjobs, which isn't gay.
And I think sexual orientation is who you're attracted to, not who you have sex with. Straight guys do stuff with other guys all the time, it doesn't really make them gay.
And for all I know, it may be the worst thing I ever experience and I may never want to do it again.

My sexual orientation is for me to decide and define.

Jaffe
May 31st, 2015, 07:42 PM
My sexual orientation is for me to decide and define.

You are exactly right. Only you know who and what you are. Couldnt have said it better.

marcusdolittle
May 31st, 2015, 07:48 PM
You are exactly right. Only you know who and what you are. Couldnt have said it better.

Thanks