Never had a gf

[mrpotato24]

I'm 15 year old guy, a freshman in high school and have never had a girlfriend. I'm not the most attractive guy by far and am kinda overweight at 5'9" and 194 pounds. The annoying thing though is for the past couple years I've been going to the gym 5 days a week and am pretty strong as on the pull down bar I regularly go at 200 pounds and can go up to 260 if I'm trying to show off but with all of that I have nothing to show because the muscle just makes me look more fat as it just builds up under it. Most people I know in my grade have had realationships with girls and seems like theve gotten pretty far in. I only know this because the pics I've seen of their girlfriends in the football lockerroom. Generally during lunch I'll sit with the other wierd kids. A few weeks ago though I started talking to a guy and moved to his lunch table that's now me, 2 other guys and the rest are girls. That's just a backround.

So until recently no girls have shown any interest but one of the girls started to sit next to me and talk to me more and less to her friends being really nice etc so I asked her best friend if the girl had a thing for me and she told me it took me it took me a while to notice. I do think the girl is pretty really nice and funny and I want to try to ask her out but I have no idea what so ever what to do.

How would I ask her

What do teenagers even like to do
What do I do on dates to make them not super awkward

I'm basically asking wtf do I do

If you need anymore details I will be happy to provide them and I can get as specific as people need

[Body odah Man]

I'm 15 year old guy, a freshman in high school and have never had a girlfriend. I'm not the most attractive guy by far and am kinda overweight at 5'9" and 194 pounds. The annoying thing though is for the past couple years I've been going to the gym 5 days a week and am pretty strong as on the pull down bar I regularly go at 200 pounds and can go up to 260 if I'm trying to show off but with all of that I have nothing to show because the muscle just makes me look more fat as it just builds up under it. Most people I know in my grade have had realationships with girls and seems like theve gotten pretty far in. I only know this because the pics I've seen of their girlfriends in the football lockerroom. Generally during lunch I'll sit with the other wierd kids. A few weeks ago though I started talking to a guy and moved to his lunch table that's now me, 2 other guys and the rest are girls. That's just a backround.

So until recently no girls have shown any interest but one of the girls started to sit next to me and talk to me more and less to her friends being really nice etc so I asked her best friend if the girl had a thing for me and she told me it took me it took me a while to notice. I do think the girl is pretty really nice and funny and I want to try to ask her out but I have no idea what so ever what to do.

How would I ask her

What do teenagers even like to do
What do I do on dates to make them not super awkward

I'm basically asking wtf do I do

If you need anymore details I will be happy to provide them and I can get as specific as people need

Teens like getting coffee somewhere, going to an arcade, sopping (girls), stuff like that.
And to not make dates awkward, treat them like a regular meeting and just chat about dumb, inconsequential topics. Good luck, hope things work out

[Pat the Bunny]

1. The annoying thing though is for the past couple years I've been going to the gym 5 days a week muscle just makes me look more fat as it just builds up under it.

2. So until recently no girls have shown any interest but one of the girls started to sit next to me and talk to me more and less to her friends being really nice . I do think the girl is pretty really nice and funny and I want to try to ask her out but I have no idea what so ever what to do.

How would I ask her

What do teenagers even like to do
What do I do on dates to make them not super awkward

I'm basically asking wtf do I do

If you need anymore details I will be happy to provide them and I can get as specific as people need

1: The problem is that building muscle and losing fat are two different things. I would suggest doing some research to make a plan.

2: Well, the good new is that she already knows you like her too (There's a 99.99% chance that if her best friend knows, she knows). Just pick a good moment and ask. Unfortunately I don't know what the hip-kids these days like to do either.:D

Good luck

[mrpotato24]

So how would I ask her

[mrjc]

ask her for a drink or sommot fun like bowling

[panos113]

As the other guys said go out where ever you want. Now from your saying, I suspect that you need to increase your confidence. Look I am also overweight and I feel the same way. I believe that the only way to feel better is a healthy diet so that while you get muscle from working out, you will lose fat. If you keep this up for about 3 months, you will see a huge difference. Plus she will think that you did all of this for her. (+1 point for you)

[MichelleNi]

I wouldn't recommend to ask her out immediately, take her number first...if you ask her out in front of her friends, she will probably feel pressured and say no

[Jaffe]

On the part of asking a girl out, good question. But she already likes you, so the rejection part is unlikely. Just make it casual... "Hey, wanna go to (whatever) with me on Saturday?" Make it something you would probably do anyway.

I have no clue how formal dates work. Not my thing. At least not yet. When I wanna do something with somebody, its like go to the beach together, or go swimming or walking or hiking. Or just hang out at their house or mine. Or go to some coffee place and just hang out and talk. I don't do, or havent yet anyway, things like school dances or things you have to drive to (I dont drive, and dont want to ask my parents for a ride).

On the weight loss thing: I don't have a lot of experience, because I'm kind of small. But my swimming coach is always telling us to avoid weightlifting because it builds muscle and bulk but doesnt burn a lot of fat. Whole-body exercise burns fat. Swimming, walking, running, biking. Like I said, I don't really have experience but you might research that theory.

[Body odah Man]

I agree with jaffed (awesome dude). Try his tips and gl

[kadra01]

As the other guys said go out where ever you want. Now from your saying, I suspect that you need to increase your confidence. Look I am also overweight and I feel the same way. I believe that the only way to feel better is a healthy diet so that while you get muscle from working out, you will lose fat. If you keep this up for about 3 months, you will see a huge difference. Plus she will think that you did all of this for her. (+1 point for you)

if i like a boy and he likes me too, i don't think overweight will change my answer if he ask me out on a date.