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LonelyWorld
May 22nd, 2015, 04:05 AM
Alright, so I met someone about two months ago online and we started talking on skype and stuff, and like, its been great.

Eventually he asked me out, ofcourse, I said yes. And now, we never talk, its long distance and he's having exams.

Should I leave him or give him time?
Vermilion
May 22nd, 2015, 04:07 AM
What do you want ?
LonelyWorld
May 22nd, 2015, 04:09 AM
What do you want ?

With all honesty?
I dont want to be lonely.
I want to be happy.

Is that selfish?
Vermilion
May 22nd, 2015, 04:13 AM
Does he make you happy ? Do you feel lonely ?
No it's not selfish
LonelyWorld
May 22nd, 2015, 05:21 AM
He does, sorta.

Yes I feel lonely.
Vermilion
May 22nd, 2015, 05:27 AM
He does, sorta.

Yes I feel lonely.

Are you lonely cos you don't see him/talk much or other reason ? Why does he make you sorta happy
Microcosm
May 22nd, 2015, 06:52 AM
The best thing you can do right now is be there for him. Like, not trying too hard to talk to him all the time but just always be there when he does need you.
Melodic
May 22nd, 2015, 10:19 PM
Look, I've been exactly where you're at. I was in an LDR relationship with a guy I actually knew from rl. The guy had a tough life, so I rarely heard from the guy. After a while, you start to get unhappy and pretty lonely with the relationship. Don't put yourself in that situation. If you have a chance, talk to him about how you feel. If not, I would consider breaking off the relationship until he can give you what you need.
Ridonks_CB
May 22nd, 2015, 10:53 PM
Alright, so I met someone about two months ago online and we started talking on skype and stuff, and like, its been great.

Eventually he asked me out, ofcourse, I said yes. And now, we never talk, its long distance and he's having exams.

Should I leave him or give him time?
It doesn't seem like he's doing anything wrong - the distance and exams aren't in his hands. The best you can do is be there for him, but also allow him some space so he can be able to focus on his studies.
Body odah Man
May 23rd, 2015, 12:12 AM
Alright, so I met someone about two months ago online and we started talking on skype and stuff, and like, its been great.

Eventually he asked me out, ofcourse, I said yes. And now, we never talk, its long distance and he's having exams.

Should I leave him or give him time?

He has EXAMS. He needs time to study and pass them
Once he has he'll be social again