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Naturalist
May 21st, 2015, 07:33 PM
I'm 15, male, and bi and I have a crush on a straight guy. WHAT DO I DO

Babs
May 21st, 2015, 07:42 PM
If he's straight, then there isn't much you can do except try to get over it. That's probably not what you want to hear, but it's not like you can change who he is.

Tristin.
May 21st, 2015, 07:43 PM
You accept you have a crush. You can either act on it or not. That choice is yours :)

Naturalist
May 21st, 2015, 07:53 PM
God it's like the worst feeling though isn't it? Like I get friend zoning and that sucks too but there's still a possibility with that. This is like loving someone who will never in a million years love you back and it doesn't always feel like just a sexuality issue.

Trickythetiger
May 22nd, 2015, 01:22 AM
I had a crush on my best friend, but she's straight. It's a really long story but I ended up not dating her, but I did tell her I liked her. :0

So you have a crush, and you should definitely take action like I did. Heck, do you know if they're 100% straight? Aside that, you should definitely ask 'em out. You never know! They just might say yes. :)

Ridonks_CB
May 22nd, 2015, 10:42 PM
God it's like the worst feeling though isn't it? Like I get friend zoning and that sucks too but there's still a possibility with that. This is like loving someone who will never in a million years love you back and it doesn't always feel like just a sexuality issue.

I personally don't believe the "friend zone" is even a real thing.
Aside from that, sometimes you just get unlucky. It is just a crush though and people are usually able to get over those feelings after a while. I hope you get through this smoothly :)

Naturalist
May 23rd, 2015, 02:32 AM
I would tell him how I feel but he started dating a girl like three days ago. Idk, this is my first real crush and I don't know how to deal with the feels

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May 23rd, 2015, 02:55 AM
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SethfromMI
May 23rd, 2015, 09:29 AM
if he is straight there is not much you can do but try to move on

Zachary G
May 23rd, 2015, 09:48 AM
Having a straight crush is always the hardest thing because you know there is no chance of them ever feeling the same about you as you do about them. So, your options are 1) get over it and move on, 2) accept the fact that you can never have him be anything ore than a friend and go on with life as usual, 3) tell him how you feel at the risk of him rebuffing you or breaking your heart. Thats just my 2 cents worth. Good luck