Texting crush

[smff]

So me and my crush text each other quite a lot, at least 3 or 4 times a week (most of the time she starts it btw)

But a lot of the time our conversations are short and meaningless and awkward. What are some tips/good things to talk about?

[Vermilion]

Find something you have in common to talk about, ask her how her day went ect just show your only interested in her

[ImCoolBeans]

If you want to have better conversations you could try to get to know her better by asking about her interests, hobbies, things like that. But I think the best way to get to know somebody is through actual conversation rather than through texting.

[ClaraWho]

I agree with 'ImCoolBeans' in that in person is far better.

Making conversation via text is the same as in person however in terms of keeping it interesting. A good conversationalist (why hello :P) can chat comfortably in any situation. It's all about having amusing anecdotes/being inventive.

Text her something funny/ridiculous that just happened. Text her a personal story/ask her advice if you actually will respect it. Ask how her day went.

I mean if all your conversations are awkward it could be that she just isn't interested, and doesn't want to hurt your feelings by ignoring you completely.

Can we see some examples of the texts?

~ Clara

[Dying Ember]

Yep, by seeing her and having actual contact you'll get to know her better therefore you'll have more interesting things to text about. How about you text her to ask if she wants to meet up?

[Uniquemind]

Use texting as a tool to plan dates and experience stuff with her. Those experiences will be memories which can foster conversation.

Make a game out of texting like challenge her to a bet.

So much more advice I could give but I'll stop here.