Some Advice Please?

[roaxroack]

I am a 17 year old girl. I am horny fairly often and I masturbate regularly.

A senior this year really likes me, but he doesn't want to do anything sexual(until he is well into college). That sort of put me off. There's a different guy(let's call him guy 2) that wanted to FWB me and I wanted to do it.

On friday I went over to Guy 2's house and jacked him off. I really enjoyed it. I really want to suck him off, but I also am worried that the other guy has feelings for me.

I don't really want to date the other guy because I want to date someone that will give me a physical relationship but I also don't want to hurt his feelings. I can't talk to many of my friends about this because I don't want them to see me as some kind of slut.

Advice?

[Daniella98]

Its impossiple not to hurt guys feelings. If you dont want to date him you shouldnt. Thats a pretty normal situation.
When thats established you shouldnt keep away from anybody else you like. You picked one guy over another (no matter what kind of relationship it is).

If the first guy has hurt feelings. So be it. He'll probably experience it again some time.

[Straya]

Its impossiple not to hurt guys feelings. If you dont want to date him you shouldnt. Thats a pretty normal situation.
When thats established you shouldnt keep away from anybody else you like. You picked one guy over another (no matter what kind of relationship it is).

If the first guy has hurt feelings. So be it. He'll probably experience it again some time.

this is the perfect answer. you wont be the last one to hurt him in his life

[ClaraWho]

I am a 17 year old girl. I am horny fairly often and I masturbate regularly.

A senior this year really likes me, but he doesn't want to do anything sexual(until he is well into college). That sort of put me off. There's a different guy(let's call him guy 2) that wanted to FWB me and I wanted to do it.

On friday I went over to Guy 2's house and jacked him off. I really enjoyed it. I really want to suck him off, but I also am worried that the other guy has feelings for me.

I don't really want to date the other guy because I want to date someone that will give me a physical relationship but I also don't want to hurt his feelings. I can't talk to many of my friends about this because I don't want them to see me as some kind of slut.

Advice?

Well, I'd say let the senior guy go. When describing him to us, you say 'he really likes me'. You don't particularly 'like' either of them romantically, you just want sex with no commitment or deeper emotions. It would be entirely unfair at this stage to either coerce him into being more sexual than he wants to be, or to date him knowing you do not reciprocate his feelings.

It is irrelevant if Guy 1 has feelings for you, as you don't want a real relationship right now. So just carrying on doing what it is you want to do, in your seemingly one-sided sexual trysts with Guy 2.

In regards to your friends and not being able to tell them; This is your life to screw up, the mistakes are yours to make. Nobody can live your life for you. If they deem you a slut for going around to male friends houses to perform sexual acts on guys you are only interested in for sucking them off and sex, then you'll have to decide if they're whom you want to be friends with.

Just bear in mind they may be against it as they feel they are trying to protect you, rather than just disgust at what you have decided to do with your life.

- Clara