boyfriend or girlfriends lack of puberty

[birdbrain01]

what would you do if you found out that your boyfriend or your girlfriend hadn't started puberty yet? if you started to do something sexual and you found out that he or she hadn't started yet would you continue?

[Vermilion]

I'd probably stop there body isn't ready for it yet

[ClaraWho]

O.o Shouldn't be doing anything with prepubescent partners :/.

Also what kind of question is that? Either you already did something without knowing and stopped, or you are planning the scenario in which it becomes a choice :/

[Hideous]

I agree with Clara. I would not participate in anything sexual with prepubescent partners. They're just not ready for it.

[Sasha M]

Above answers were short and sweet. Obviously should not be doing any actual intercource with a prepubescent. I guess oral is technically fine though as long as they consent and both your ages allow for legal sex. (Check local laws for what ages can legally have sex together.)

I also would advice against anal/vaginal for the undeveloped body but technically its still legal with specific age pairs if you really want to.

Do your homework.

BUT, you might wanna tell us a bit of back story so we can see what the fu%$ you actually mean. XD

[SethfromMI]

I wouldn't do anything with anyone who was still prepubescent

[devon girl]

I would stop its pointly doing so but ill wait for them idm

[jssixna]

If my gf/bf was my age, I think I'd know whether they started puberty or not.
In this scenario, no, I would not have sex. It would feel like I'm with a child and it seems wrong.

[kev99]

I'm late bloomer and started puberty at late 15 (and it is still very early stages so far). I had sex with my gf who is about the same age as me since last year. Didn't cause her trouble - we did it because we both felt strong feelings to each other and we are the same age. I don't think she'd have done it with someone much younger.

[nicole97]

Well being 18 now I'd obviously be really concerned, not for my own enjoyment but for their health. As someone who started fairly young though and became sexually active during the early stages of puberty with a partner on who had similar levels of development I experienced no problems with it, but would have probably felt uncomfortable with someone who was either either totally undeveloped or far more developed then myself.

[pconnor2001]

I would be real careful--I think there is much more to this question/post. Anways, my advice is not to do anything. Get to know more and find out ahead. GEEZ.

Be careful dude!!!

[clairey]

I think you would need to be very careful. Puberty means lots of hormonal and emotional changes, not just physical ones. Someone who hasn't started puberty yet is going to be in a different place emotionally and physically. It doesn't mean you can't have a relationship but probably shouldn't be having a physical one.

[birdbrain01]

I was referring to myself. At the time I hadn't started puberty yet and I was wondering what a girl's reaction would be to seeing a prepubescent penis. But everything is starting to grow now so it doesn't really matter anymore

[Zachary G]

If my gf/bf was my age, I think I'd know whether they started puberty or not.
In this scenario, no, I would not have sex. It would feel like I'm with a child and it seems wrong.

I agree, if they were the same age as me and we were dating, I think I would know if they were in puberty or not