I'm just Gonna Say this...

[Anastaysha Marie]

I haven't dated somebody in forever. I mean like REALLY dated anybody. I've been in a sort of "mutual-thinking-somebody-looks-hot-so-you-do-stuff-with-them-for-a-couple-of-days" sort of thing, but that's it. I"m still hung up on this guy. He has a gf, and it doesn't look like she's going anywhere. I'm tired of it. People have told me to date somebody else you like to get over him, but that's kind of hard when nobody else compares to him. *sigh* I just thought I'd put that out there. Somebody help please. I'm tired of feeling this way.:( :( :console:

[ImCoolBeans]

Unfortunately your friends are right. If your crush is currently dating somebody, and you don't think they will be breaking up any time soon, it's probably best to move on. It's never easy to move on, especially with your first big crushes or first love(s), but it has to be done. Do your best to avoid thinking of him, and if possible try to focus your attention on other people/things in your life.

[raindropsareroses]

Hey:)
I totally understand what you're going through. Moving on is something that seems completely impossible when you really like someone.
I'm not going to tell you to move on because I knew how much that upset and annoyed me when I was in your situation. What I will advise you to do is try not to think about him as much, focus on yourself, do what makes you happy, find a new hobby?
Take your mind off him for a while and you might just surprise yourself. Tell yourself that waiting for him could be a very long time and it could be unsuccessful or successful, but you're okay with either outcome. I hope that helped, it's exactly what I did and it really did help. Life is all about perspective, try and think positively and your thoughts will follow.

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