help

[cswub90]

i know there was been like a million of them buttttt
i am so confused

i had a gf a couple months ago
but now i am confused if i am gay or not

i want to be w/ a girl and flirt w/ them but when i am horny all i want to do is watch gay porn and i think about having sex w/ a guy friend.

i have nothing against bi/gay ppl i just want to be straight

this whole thing is sooo confusing and stressing me out

advice plz?

o and i am 14 1/2

[Oblivion]

The advice i would give anyone under 17 is wait for a few years, maybe MAYBE experiment a little, but safely... Raging hormones can make you want to do things you dont want to do. Lol a little brain trivia there :P anyway: During puberty its all so confusing you really just have to think and wait until your body is settled... Also http://virtualteen.org/?page=midsch_develop has a part about phases and it said around this age its normal to be scared of being homosexual/bisexual, but then in the end some people no longer fear it and become it :)

[cswub90]

yea

i liked having a gf and i want another and i like girls but its just when i jack off i think about my guy friends

idk i am just confused

[mr.sexy_bomb]

well that makes u bi like me

[Mzor203]

well that makes u bi like me

Ummm, no, not necessarily, as someone said before, waiting a few years will give you more time to figure out who you really are. Sometimes you just are what you are, and you can't change it.

[chris__robin]

yeah you are still pretty young so maybe wait a while to sort yourself out
can i ask you ... do you say you still like girls because you REALLY do, or because you think you SHOULD in your head ... lke its hard to explain but, because your friends do and think you like girls ... you might think you want a gf but ... you really dont

i dont think i made much sense ... just stick it out, be yourself and dont be scared if you realise you are gay its not a bad thing to happen to you :)