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Casey18
May 15th, 2015, 09:44 AM
What would you do when your friend is the kind of person that loves to get attention from guys, sleeps with many! And she hangs out with your boyfriend a lot!! They didn't know each other, I introduced them! And lately she's been telling me she soooooooooooo busy she can't seen me,I haven't seen her for months now, yet she invited my boyfriend a bunch of times to go to her place!

I already seem jealous and insecure in my boyfriends eyes which I hate! But he's convinced that she's a good person but she's being so bitchy to me lately... She doesn't replay to me unless she wants something and for a fact I know she is talking to others with no problem

The thing is when i introduced them a bit later we had a small fight(me and bf) So me and him stopped talking. He did something that hurt me I told her to text him how bad is what he did! Cause I couldn't and he wasn't aware! Then a day later she convinced him to come to her place then she went to his and was hanging out with him a lot, it hurt me too much and it still hurt cause I hate bitches like that!
But he is using the fact that she "stuck" up for me (which she didn't cause I told her to do that) as an excuse to prove what a great friend she is!
And the fact that she has a boyfriend so she doesn't like him( but she slept with her bf best friend like 3 times) and he's all the way in another country

I really don't want him to hang out with her! Especially cause she is being bitchy to me and acting like a saint in front of him!
Plz advice I'm not over reacting what she is doing is not acceptable

Casey18
May 15th, 2015, 05:24 PM
Not spamming but plz I need advice! Should I tell him I told her to text him that what he did was bad

Taryn98
May 15th, 2015, 08:33 PM
If your bf and/or your friend were really good friends (to you) they would seriously consider your feelings. If you ask either of them not to hang out, they should respect your wishes. If either of them don't, that would tell me they aren't the type of people I'd want to associate with.
Listen to your gut. If you think something is going on between them, there's a real possibility there is.

Ridonks_CB
May 16th, 2015, 12:29 AM
If your bf and/or your friend were really good friends (to you) they would seriously consider your feelings. If you ask either of them not to hang out, they should respect your wishes. If either of them don't, that would tell me they aren't the type of people I'd want to associate with.
Listen to your gut. If you think something is going on between them, there's a real possibility there is.

Basically..Not really responsible of them to do this to ya :/

sweettayla
May 16th, 2015, 01:17 AM
If your bf and/or your friend were really good friends (to you) they would seriously consider your feelings. If you ask either of them not to hang out, they should respect your wishes. If either of them don't, that would tell me they aren't the type of people I'd want to associate with.
Listen to your gut. If you think something is going on between them, there's a real possibility there is.
This.

Uniquemind
May 16th, 2015, 01:39 AM
You can't control who other people hang out with and what they do with each other.

That's life and you gotta accept that.

The only thing you can do is endure or walk away from the people even though you might care for them a lot.

Sometimes people you are close to go to a place you can't follow.


I will remain neutral regarding assuming who did sex acts with who though.

On that note I'm a pure "videos or primary source I saw two people having sex" or I won't believe rumors or even assumptions based on reputations alone.