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LonelyWorld
May 15th, 2015, 02:02 AM
Alright so
Ive never really had a "REAL" relationship...
and like im really wanting one, I'm lonely.
I just want someone to love me, cuddle me, y'know?
Advice? qq...

Lost in the Echo
May 15th, 2015, 03:14 AM
The only advice I can give you is to take things slow, and not force yourself into a relationship with the first person who catches your eye, for the sole purpose of being able to say "yay, I have a partner".
Some people find romance before others, and that's just the way it is. There's over 7 billion people on this earth.
Have patience. You will know when you find someone you feel compatible with. Just don't force anything. It won't be worth your time.

Vermilion
May 15th, 2015, 04:33 AM
Don't get to caught up in thinking everything will be perfect it never is in a relationship

RavenR
May 17th, 2015, 05:06 AM
Don't get to caught up in thinking everything will be perfect it never is in a relationship

I agree with that. There are no ideal relationships, every couple has its own problems.

As for the piece of advice, I would definitely recommend not to wait until someone comes and starts to love you, cuddle you etc. You will have far more chances to find a proper person if you take initiative in your hands. Make new friends, meet people, maybe find a new hobby.

ClaraWho
May 18th, 2015, 10:45 AM
The only advice I can give you is to take things slow, and not force yourself into a relationship with the first person who catches your eye, for the sole purpose of being able to say "yay, I have a partner".
Some people find romance before others, and that's just the way it is. There's over 7 billion people on this earth.
Have patience. You will know when you find someone you feel compatible with. Just don't force anything. It won't be worth your time.

This. Loneliness is horrid, but use this time to find who you want to be as a person, to grow stable and confident on your own with who you are and what you want. And the right person will come along.

The best advice I can give you is make friends with girls, or guys, whatever your beverage of pleasure. The most solid and best relationship will arise out of a best friendship, and you'll just know they are the one.

- Clara

raindropsareroses
May 19th, 2015, 11:28 AM
Relationships take a long time to come about, you sometimes find yourself waiting and waiting, but when you stop...that's when something great happens. Not being in a relationship sucks sometimes but then other times it's great? When you stop waiting, you'll meet someone at a totally unexpected time. Life is a series of unexpected events in itself, that's what's so beautiful. It's always seeming like a rush to be in a relationship however, focussing on yourself is the most important thing, then think about getting to know someone properly before getting into a relationship:)

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