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Horatio Nelson
May 14th, 2015, 05:26 PM
Yeah, actually making this thread. :P

So, there's this girl at my school, and, I wanted to try and talk to her. I know her name, but have never spoken to her before. About 2-3 weeks ago, I finally got the courage to walk up to her and say hi. She said hi back, but, turned back to her friend, and essentially ignored me. I was kind of bummed, but decided it is what it is.

I still see her at school often, and today, as I was waiting to get picked up, she was waiting just a few feet away. She was with her friend (who she's always with) and, she walked over, and stood really close to me, (it's raining, mind you, and she could have very well waited under the overhang). Eventually they left. But, my question is, do you think she was waiting for me to say something to her? Or am I just imagining things?

Uranus
May 14th, 2015, 06:20 PM
This is difficult to answer honestly, because of how little she has done/said.
So, the part where you said a friendly "Hello", to which she replied with a hello, does not mean she is ignoring you intentionally, or has zero interest in you. It was just a hello, and a reply.
However, if you had replied with "How are you?", "What's up?", "Hey, I'm Zach", then maybe we could understand her a little bit more.

Maybe she was wanting you to say something, and maybe not. If she was with none of her friends, (Meaning she and you are the ones standing together) then I'm sure she was wanting you to say something. Because she would have to have a reason to stand so close to you when all she experienced with you was two words basically.

Did she lead her friend to the waiting area? Or did her friend? If it was her friend who led, Its more than likely a coincidence.

I'm not trying to discourage you or anything like that. But given the amount of information we have of her, which is very little, (Because all there was, was a hello, and standing near you, about 2-3 weeks from two separate words) I can't say for sure what she is wanting.

Give it some more time and try to talk more with her and see how things turn out. Learn more about her and talk with her. Good luck dude.