Gay or Not?

[amigay]

I just really want to know what you people think about this.

I'm 16 and I kinda have a crush on this guy I know. I've never been interested in girls ever since I was a kid, till now.

I've been wondering whether I really am gay, or is this just a phase (I don't think it is) or will this be part of my life? And if so, should I tell him about my feelings towards him? Cause I don't feel like risking it and losing a friend.

What do you people think?

[Kev*]

wqat eva u wanna do

soz if this isnt much help

maybe you shouls leave it a while and then see if its a phase or not

[Ezz]

i dont know if you are gay, if will know if you do.
do you interesting on guy, and you wanted be with him forever? if you do, then i think you are gay...

if you are gay, that doesnt means that your friend is gay, just tell him if he is gay or i think you will ruin your friend ship.... *for my opinions*

by the way, do whatever you feel is good and dont regret

[Ravenous]

Its probably just a phase, If you still feel the same way a few months later then it probably isn't.
Hope this helps.

a_many_question_boy I know english isn't your first language but you dont make sense very often....

[Rowan1011]

I'd probably still hang out with one of my best friend if I found out he was gay....... But.. I wouldn't feel the same way about him. If I were you, I wouldn't say a word unless you find out he's gay too :o..

That is of course, if you are gay but I have no idea if you are.

[Ezz]

Its probably just a phase, If you still feel the same way a few months later then it probably isn't.
Hope this helps.

a_many_question_boy I know english isn't your first language but you dont make sense very often....

huh?

*tell him if you think he is gay
*not tell him if you think he is not a gay

[Dante]

well u said u dont think its a phase......so then ur probably gay

[amigay]

Well... it's easy to say tell. But it's difficult to do it.

I've thought of plenty of ways, but I don't think I can apply any of them, and it's even more scary if you don't know what to expect out of him. I've really been thinking about all these and it makes me quite desperate to look for a way out.

[Kev*]

a_many_question_boy there is a site called www.freetranslations.com and also what is your first languadge

[amigay]

I'm deciding to tell him. But problem is I don't know how I should start or even talk to him about it.

Any suggestions?

[Kev*]

jus say here i got summat 2 tell u n if u tell every1 in skool i will commit suicide (jus 2 scare him)

[Kev*]

o ok oooops dont do that

[ejebay91]

whenever you feel comfortable tell someone you really trust are just wait untill your 18 to tell you parents

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

yep gay sorry

[amigay]

But I'm afraid that if I tell someone about this... I might just lose a friend.

[Ezz]

you really think you are gay? why your friend will leave you if you are gay?

[that guy]

prob gay

[Mattasaur94]

Your sexuality isn't something you run around screaming to everyone, if thats the problem.
If you like a guy, or girl for this fact, just talk to them, be casual, be their friend, don't run in with arms waving around in the air screaming it to them, take a casual approach, get to know them.
Do body gestures and movements and talk to him, try and get his opinion on what he feels about homosexuality (or bisexuality in this case, or even just bi-curious) your response and how you should go about it WILL vary depending on how he'll react, so it's best if your prepared for the worst, but look for the best. (:

[Freshprince]

You sound like you are gay . if u have a crush on a person of the same sex its not a phase. Being curois is one thing but having a crush sound more beyond that point. Theres nothing wrong with it its watever u want to do. But if they guy u like isnt gay i wouldnt suggest telling him how u feel, that could turn into a big problem

[MacMilker]

noo dont tell him unless your certain hes gay, trust me ive been through this before tis not fun and if hes straight hell think your a creeper

[Billy15]

I have the same questions and even have crushes on a few guys that I know but most people here have told me that its to soon to really know what we are for sure and that it may just be a phase (but I am really starting to doubt that) but unless you know for sure that your friend would not freak out i doubt that i would confront him because you could lose a very good friend in that process and you have to ask yourself is that possibility worth it. i know how your feeling (because I feel the same) but being outed
is not always a good thing so be careful. good luck in whatever you decide.

[Ender]

Go with the flow and be who you really are. Just be yourself.

[Antares]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Teen sexuality

[gone]

yep gay sorry

sorry for what?

also. you may be bi.

[sandman17]

you could be bi
if you still like girls,

the only thing i suggest it doing what i did.
when you're all fooling around touch his butt, you should be able to tell if he's cool with it, if he is then mabey its safe to make a move. obviously if he dosen't like it then you can just pass it off as messing around!

[DeadBard]

unless you know for sure that your friend would not freak out i doubt that i would confront him because you could lose a very good friend in that process and you have to ask yourself is that possibility worth it.

If the person is a true friend he will accept you, if the person does freak out and turn its back on you its not a real friend.

[AlwaysConfused]

i understand the crushes on a few guys.....they can b sooooo annoying right?

[HARDER]

DUDE... ASK HIM TO MASTURBATE WITH YOU WHILE WATCHING PORN... UR NOT GAY UR JUST A HORNY TEEN LIKE ALL OF US.... !!!!:D:yeah::lol: