What am I?

[paletanner]

One of my brothers is gay, the other one is straight. What am I? I never had anal sex with a guy. But me and my friend jacked off together a few times. He gave me oral, but I'm afraid to give it back to him. But i also feel really bad for not giving it back to him because he's my friend. I don't have a girlfriend,plus I don't know if i will have one. I know what my brother says. What do you all think?

[Ridonks_CB]

That is for you to find out eventually, it's not really something we can just tell you.
and why do you feel bad about not returning an oral to your friend? Just because someone is your friend does not mean you have to be pressured into doing things you do not want to do/nervous about doing, nor should you feel bad about it.

[James Dean]

Even though there have been many studies and research findings about sexuality, nothing has been proven about siblings. Sexuality isn't as simple as that.

So you can't use your brothers as a basis to determine your sexuality, as like I said before, it's not formed that way.

How sexuality is formed, is by attraction and how your body thinks. If you have attraction to guys, in any shape or form, that could determine your sexuality in some ways. As time goes on, I'm sure you will learn your sexuality, and how you accept yourself for who you are.

Don't do anything that you're not comfortable with. You also don't have to label yourself anything if you don't want to as you are finding out about your sexuality more.

[paletanner]

That is for you to find out eventually, it's not really something we can just tell you.
and why do you feel bad about not returning an oral to your friend? Just because someone is your friend does not mean you have to be pressured into doing things you do not want to do/nervous about doing, nor should you feel bad about it.

Even though there have been many studies and research findings about sexuality, nothing has been proven about siblings. Sexuality isn't as simple as that.

So you can't use your brothers as a basis to determine your sexuality, as like I said before, it's not formed that way.

How sexuality is formed, is by attraction and how your body thinks. If you have attraction to guys, in any shape or form, that could determine your sexuality in some ways. As time goes on, I'm sure you will learn your sexuality, and how you accept yourself for who you are.

Don't do anything that you're not comfortable with. You also don't have to label yourself anything if you don't want to as you are finding out about your sexuality more.

Some guys I see I think are hot af and I picture them in my head when I beat off. I like girls' boobs. A couple of my girls that are friends are really sweet to me and I sometimes I get hard thinking about them. I'm curious about all sex tbh but that's because I'm a virgin I think. I don't get boners a lot in the locker room but I do get them mostly because I see other guys' bodies. I think my friend that sucked me is really cute but I'm scared to go any further. I feel if i had a girlfriend none of this would be happening.

[Vermilion]

Some guys I see I think are hot af and I picture them in my head when I beat off. I like girls' boobs. A couple of my girls that are friends are really sweet to me and I sometimes I get hard thinking about them. I'm curious about all sex tbh but that's because I'm a virgin I think. I don't get boners a lot in the locker room but I do get them mostly because I see other guys' bodies. I think my friend that sucked me is really cute but I'm scared to go any further. I feel if i had a girlfriend none of this would be happening.

Do you think if you had a boyfriend you'd be happy ? You it stop you questioning yourself ?

[paletanner]

Do you think if you had a boyfriend you'd be happy ? You it stop you questioning yourself ?

i don't know about a boyfriend. maybe? it's all confusing because they say it's ok to be gay but then there's like this scary part because of sex and relationships and everything.

[Vermilion]

i don't know about a boyfriend. maybe? it's all confusing because they say it's ok to be gay but then there's like this scary part because of sex and relationships and everything.

Your 14 you don't been a relationship or to be worrying about sex. I'm 17 bi no relationship never done anything sexual

[paletanner]

Your 14 you don't been a relationship or to be worrying about sex. I'm 17 bi no relationship never done anything sexual

but like my straight friends have girlfriends. they're all happy. I asked a girl out and she said no, then told her friends at the next table and they all laughed. i'm like wtf?

[Vermilion]

but like my straight friends have girlfriends. they're all happy. I asked a girl out and she said no, then told her friends at the next table and they all laughed. i'm like wtf?

I've had a gf it's not perfect having a relationship. Don't judge your happiness of others :) not every girl you like will like you back

[paletanner]

I've had a gf it's not perfect having a relationship. Don't judge your happiness of others :) not every girl you like will like you back

but why did they laugh? why is it funny? what did i do wrong?

[jacshamy]

but why did they laugh? why is it funny? what did i do wrong?

You didn't do anything wrong, Tanner. Girls tell each other secrets about boys. They might have "predicted" you would ask her out or something. They're weird. :P

[Vermilion]

but why did they laugh? why is it funny? what did i do wrong?

What did you do just ask her ? Had you spoken to her before ? Has she shown any interest in you

[paletanner]

What did you do just ask her ? Had you spoken to her before ? Has she shown any interest in you

she talks to one of my friends and sits next to him. i sit at the same table so I talk to her too. she's funny and said i'm cute so wtfe

[Vermilion]

she talks to one of my friends and sits next to him. i sit at the same table so I talk to her too. she's funny and said i'm cute so wtfe

She's just being stupid, your a nice good looking young man/boy. If she doesn't see that her loss. Just cos a person thinks your cute doesn't mean they want to go out with you. He friends being there probably affect her reaction to.

[paletanner]

She's just being stupid, your a nice good looking young man/boy. If she doesn't see that her loss. Just cos a person thinks your cute doesn't mean they want to go out with you. He friends being there probably affect her reaction to.

it's stupid.

[Vermilion]

it's stupid.

Love is stupid you'll find that out. Just be happy and when you find the right person you'll know :) just give it time

[paletanner]

Love is stupid you'll find that out. Just be happy and when you find the right person you'll know :) just give it time

but what if it never happens?

[Vermilion]

but what if it never happens?

Your 14 I didn't get a gf till 16 and it wasn't worth it I loved her but didn't have any sexual feelings for her. It will happen and when it does you'll know. Your brother doesn't have a partner he's happy

[jacshamy]

Your brother doesn't have a partner he's happy

Wellllllllll..........I'm okayyyy with it.

[Dying Ember]

What you're mentioning here is physical things, actions. Sexuality is also about the emotional side of things. Are you romantically attracted to females? Males?, both?

[Vermilion]

Wellllllllll..........I'm okayyyy with it.

maybe not then :P but my point still stands it will happen and when it does you'll know if its right :)