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hannaszabo
May 13th, 2015, 11:39 AM
Hi!

I am 14.5 yo and i am still a virgin, do you think I am late? I just want to have a guy for the first time we are in love with. Is this old-fashiond? I'm just reading here that most of the girls lost it below my age.

Dying Ember
May 13th, 2015, 12:06 PM
Wait are you 16 or 14? Either way, NO you are not late. There is no specific ages where you should have lost your virginity, it is up to you and when you are ready and never should you feel you have to lose it just for the sake of it

Abbeys
May 13th, 2015, 12:20 PM
Wait are you 16 or 14? Either way, NO you are not late. There is no specific ages where you should have lost your virginity, it is up to you and when you are ready and never should you feel you have to lose it just for the sake of it


I read it as fourteen and a half.

And no it's not late at all!!!

Dying Ember
May 13th, 2015, 12:36 PM
I read it as fourteen and a half.

And no it's not late at all!!!

yeah, I just got confused because on her profile thing at the side it says she's 16

Abbeys
May 13th, 2015, 12:49 PM
yeah, I just got confused because on her profile thing at the side it says she's 16


Your right!!

Apologies.

hannaszabo
May 13th, 2015, 01:40 PM
Wait are you 16 or 14? Either way, NO you are not late. There is no specific ages where you should have lost your virginity, it is up to you and when you are ready and never should you feel you have to lose it just for the sake of it

Thanks for this, how can I change it? I must have mistyped it. :(

Wait are you 16 or 14? Either way, NO you are not late. There is no specific ages where you should have lost your virginity, it is up to you and when you are ready and never should you feel you have to lose it just for the sake of it

Already working on it, thanks again :)

Dying Ember
May 13th, 2015, 02:59 PM
Thanks for this, how can I change it? I must have mistyped it. :(



Already working on it, thanks again :)

No problem :)

sweettayla
May 14th, 2015, 05:03 AM
No, there's no age you're supposed to lose your virginity. You only get once chance at it, you do it when you're totally comfortable with it

LITTLEANGEL19
May 14th, 2015, 08:10 AM
Hanna just be very proud of yourself that you are still a virgin and don't let anyone tell you anything different :) X

devon girl
May 15th, 2015, 01:59 AM
look take ur time its no rush, and allot of girls dont lose that eirly

Trickythetiger
May 22nd, 2015, 01:07 AM
Heya :0 There's definitely no age of when you should lose your virginity. Heck I'm 17 and a virgin. :D

Do not feel the need to have sex just for the heck of it. (influence of others for losing theirs)

I think you should only go for it when you think you're 100% ready.

Claire Asteroid
May 22nd, 2015, 02:32 AM
I agree with Trickythetiger. I'm 17 and I'm a virgin too. Only do it when you're ready and you know it's the right guy.

stoneflowe96
May 22nd, 2015, 07:18 AM
No it is definitly not to late. For example, you are in Germany just allowed to have sex with someone after you turn 14. I think 14 sound early.

LucieP
May 22nd, 2015, 07:47 AM
Hanna - WAIT! Please, girl, save it for someone you care about and only when you know in your heart youre ready. I waited til I was 13 but it was someone I cared about and we were ready, some of my friends didnt and they mostly regret it. Please dont rush something so important. Even if you wait til youre 16, 17, 18!!

Honestly right now I dont have a committed partner (I like boys and girls :rolleyes:) so Im exploring a bit, which is fun ;), but it would probably be depressing if my very first experiences hadn't been part of a loving relationship.

Good luck and please be patient! Masturbating is an awesome way of taking care of things while youre waiting.:whoops:

ClaraWho
May 22nd, 2015, 04:52 PM
No it is definitly not to late. For example, you are in Germany just allowed to have sex with someone after you turn 14. I think 14 sound early.

Wait 14?!?! That's just :/ #Ick. What with any older age?! :/

stoneflowe96
May 23rd, 2015, 03:13 AM
Wait 14?!?! That's just :/ #Ick. What with any older age?! :/

I think what I wrote was a bit misunderstanding. I ment the age of consent is 14 in Germany. I just didn't remember the word for it.

hannaszabo
May 24th, 2015, 09:59 AM
Hanna - WAIT! Please, girl, save it for someone you care about and only when you know in your heart youre ready. I waited til I was 13 but it was someone I cared about and we were ready, some of my friends didnt and they mostly regret it. Please dont rush something so important. Even if you wait til youre 16, 17, 18!!

Honestly right now I dont have a committed partner (I like boys and girls :rolleyes:) so Im exploring a bit, which is fun ;), but it would probably be depressing if my very first experiences hadn't been part of a loving relationship.

Good luck and please be patient! Masturbating is an awesome way of taking care of things while youre waiting.:whoops:


Thank You for these kind words! :) I'm on it.

Beth
May 24th, 2015, 05:55 PM
No your definitely not late. There is no age time set were a girl or boy must have sex. I'm still a virgin and waiting for the right time
Please don't rush just because everyone is doing it. Don't let peer pressure push you into anything your not ready for.

THJKIGB
June 12th, 2015, 10:16 PM
I was 14(3 months from turning 15) when I lost my virginity to my boyfriend. It is totally different for everyone. The most important thing is you find someone you feel really comfortable with and go from there. Some girls it is at the age of 14, some even earlier, and some even wait till they are in there 20's I imagine.

LilLena
June 13th, 2015, 05:41 AM
I also think there should not be any age on when you loose your virginity.

I mean, it should be important whether you have the right guy to be with and not how old you are. Do not let yourself be pressured from friends or the guy (if you are not totally sure).

biancachica
June 13th, 2015, 09:38 AM
There's no age to lose your virginity. I lost mine early at 14, earlier than most of my friends. But I was with my bf for a year and we loved each other and we were both ready.

Iam-Marie
June 25th, 2015, 02:01 PM
No, I think you are not late. Give it a date when a girl must loose her virginity?? Take your time, it should a very very special for you.
And if you are 16, 17, 18 or 19 for your first time - is that a big problem for you??

Fraidy Cat
June 27th, 2015, 11:59 AM
No, you're not! I don't personally know a single teenage non - virgin. I've never even had a guy friend let alone a boyfriend open to sex!