Does she like me?

[Marco.A]

Hey Everyone.
So a little of a back story. There's this girl who i've been friends with for about 3 years now. We are close, and I always just thought of us as friends until recently. She knows practically everything about me, literally. From the personality to family to sexually, and I know the same about her. For the past year or so, people always tell us we should date. But we never really spoke about it. Well I've gotten messages from her with screen shots of conversations where people keep "pressuring" us to date. However, what I find weird is that this never came up between us before. But all of the sudden, she's been pushing it a little ( a lot) more.
Do you think she is interested? Should I bring it up at all?
I don't really want to ruin anything we have.
Thank you all in advance! :what:

[Goatzbro]

Often times people who are on the outside of a relationship see things more clearly than those actually in the relationship. It seems like they want you to at least talk about it.

[Uniquemind]

I think she's interested. The question is are you?

Either way feelings might already be invested on her part or yours just because the discussion is taking place.

If you're interested in it, go for it. Not going for it doesn't imply you're going to keep the friendship either.


What allows a couple to retain a friendship after a failed attempt at romance, is if both parties know enough about themselves to be able to ensure they can handle emotional fallout if say it doesn't work out.


If you can reassure her you can handle it if it doesn't work out, and she can reassure you that, there's nothing to lose by trying.

It's only as awkward as you make it.


As long as nobody is deceiving each other during the relationship, the chances for things to be awkward is a LOT lower.

[seamo34]

Hey Everyone.
So a little of a back story. There's this girl who i've been friends with for about 3 years now. We are close, and I always just thought of us as friends until recently. She knows practically everything about me, literally. From the personality to family to sexually, and I know the same about her. For the past year or so, people always tell us we should date. But we never really spoke about it. Well I've gotten messages from her with screen shots of conversations where people keep "pressuring" us to date. However, what I find weird is that this never came up between us before. But all of the sudden, she's been pushing it a little ( a lot) more.
Do you think she is interested? Should I bring it up at all?
I don't really want to ruin anything we have.
Thank you all in advance! :what:

well it kind of depends how u feel ? do whatever feels right for u :P

[Jdog5513]

I would bring it up/talk about it.