Still a virgin?

[Abbeys]

Say a boy sticks his penis in you and you told him not to and he wiggles it about for a few seconds but doesnt cum.

Are you still a virgin.

[hannaszabo]

If your hymen is not touched then yes. But this is an anatomical approach, philosophically i think you are not any more.

[Abbeys]

If your hymen is not touched then yes. But this is an anatomical approach, philosophically i think you are not any more.


FUK!!!!

Thats what I thought!

[kryptonite]

Say a boy sticks his penis in you and you told him not to and he wiggles it about for a few seconds but doesnt cum.

Are you still a virgin.


What you just described is rape. If you said "no" and he did it, that's quite illegal.

But no, you're no longer a virgin. You just had intercourse.

[Ridonks_CB]

What you just described is rape. If you said "no" and he did it, that's quite illegal.

But no, you're no longer a virgin. You just had intercourse.

Uh, yes, what he did was absolutely not okay...
and personally I don't see the breakage of the hymen as a sign that someone isn't a virgin anymore because it can break in many other ways, such as horseback riding, gymnastics, etc.

[kryptonite]

Uh, yes, what he did was absolutely not okay...
and personally I don't see the breakage of the hymen as a sign that someone isn't a virgin anymore because it can break in many other ways, such as horseback riding, gymnastics, etc.


I agree, but I don't see what that has to do with the original post.

[Ridonks_CB]

I agree, but I don't see what that has to do with the original post.

Someone above mentioned that she is still a virgin if the boy did not reach and break the hymen - sorry, I should've quoted to remove confusion.

[hannaszabo]

FUK!!!!

Thats what I thought!

We are really on the same page then :)

[Uniquemind]

Not only are you not a virgin anymore but what was done is enough to transfer STD/STI, and pregnancy.

Get yourself tested for all of the above now!

When did this happen?

[jenni31]

I totally agree with everyone and especially uniquemind.. if you or any of us girls say no to a boy, & I know our hormones are just raging and we are probably horny as a fuck but if you say no that means no and if he continues to put his penis inside of you then that's technically rape an now you've just risk having an STD an there could be a chance you are pregnant. a lot of people don't realize that when a boys penis goes inside your vagina or even near the entrance that those little fishies will swim up and yes you can get pregnant and it has happened to many girls. And once he's inside of you whether he stretches your hymen breaks through or whatever you're no longer a virgin at all so if you don't feel comfortable with him or he was just sort of as we put a one night stand a quickie report him because now he's taking away your virginity and you're at risk of STD and pregnant and definitely should get tested. I know it may be an embarrassing but you need to go to a clinic a doctor or even tell your mom or if you have a sister tell her it

[LITTLEANGEL19]

What you describe sounds like rape, as well you are no longer a virgin, and as has been said you need to talk to someone about it like your mum, older sister, teacher doctor or nurse etc.
Because what he done was very wrong and it's in no way your fault. X

[THJKIGB]

If you are penetrated by a penis than you are no longer considered a virgin even if he doesn't cum. The scary thing is you told this guy no and he still went inside you. That is RAPE and should be reported to an adult.

[prtygurl]

Abbey, how old are you? Let me tell you why I ask. If you are, say, 19, then your BF may end up as your life partner. If ur, say, 13, then the chances are that there will be others. Reporting rape will certainly end your relationship, so that's something to consider. I don't know - it wasn't me. But if he was just one-time stupid, and sincerely regretted it afterwards, I wouldn't make a big fuss. (Just don't let him do it again if you don't want him to!)

[Shortie]

Hey Abbey, first off if this happened then it should be reported. Now I've said that, well you ask are you still a Virgin... I think that depends on you. Would you consider yourself still a virgin? Don't worry about anyone's else's opinion just what you think. Take care

[Legs]

This is the same thing that happened to me with my boyfriend in May although I didn't say no to it. He put his penis in me and pushed it in and out of me about 3 times and pulled out and then he cummed on my inner thigh. I know we had sex and I am no longer a virgin. What makes me feel really bad about myself is I was only 12 years old and my boyfriend was 13. I am now 13 years old but still feel like crap about myself and I feel like I am a slut. I am also afraid I will never get over this and it is going to make me not want to have sex later in the relationship with him.

[LucieP]

I dont think youre a virgin, youre a rape victim. I hope you decide to do something about it because that just isnt right.