Makes me feel awful

[EssentialAspiration]

I feel like my girlfriend just doesn't care about me. When I speak to her it seems like she doesn't want to speak to me. She speaks to everybody else just fine and this just makes me feel awful. We've been together for nearly a year so what on Earth is her problem?

I think I have to confront her about it. And if I don't get good enough answers I'm breaking up with her.
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Any advice?

[Termina]

She probably feels awkward. Unless it's been like this from the start, I suggest talking to her. If she's says: "Nothing babe, stop being paranoid" dumb her ass she ain't worth your time •3•

[Uniquemind]

Sounds like there's a problem brooding in the back of her mind that she's trying figure out before she makes her next move.

But like Termina said, has the relationship always been like that dynamic wise in communication?

She could also be having mood irregularities due to drugs (prescription or otherwise) or these are symptoms of a mental disorder that's beginning to rear it's head.


Another reason is that you did or said something that pissed her off and she's brooding about it waiting for you to make it right because she doesn't understand why you don't self-recognize how out of line you were for something you did in the past or/and are repeatedly doing.

Also beware of saying comments that imply an insult if you were to take that statement and look at the inverse meaning of the compliment. If the inverse meaning of the compliment carries an insult, a seemingly innocent statement at face value will be seen to have a double-edged meaning to girls and it will prevent them from accepting/processing the compliment.

[mrjc]

yeah ask her why she acts like that

[DoodleSnap]

Every relationship is built on communication and honesty: when that breaks down, so does the relationship. The most important thing to do right now is to be honest, and tell her how you feel in a non-confrontational way, and ask her how she feels. Working out a solution together is much better than wondering about it with only half the story on your own, wondering why the other isn't a mind-reader. Speak to her, and be honest.
I hope all goes well.
Good luck.

[Cronor]

I don't know how has this turned out in the end, since OP has posted it in May, but anyhow, an advice for future relationships:

When ever you confront your SO about something, don't attack her/him or whatever. Sit down, talk about it openly, make a solution together.